OT: Help me decide?

These are the 3 dresses I bought for the wedding next weekend!  Now, I have to decide which one to wear!  Remember, this is a Saturday morning wedding at the Basilica in Lewiston.  AND YES...I did buy a wrap to cover up the arms...so keep that in mind!  These were taken in the dressing room, so please ignore the faces and bra straps, etc.....I REALLY need HONEST opinions!  Wanna help?  "Vote" here!  haha 
Thanks everyone!!!!!  hugs!  Ruth

Choice #1


Choice #2


Choice #3

I like the black the best by far, it fits you beautifully, though I am not sure it works for a morning wedding. Can you wear a white or brightly colored wrap with it to offset the black? My second choice is the blue. Can you lose the bow on the side? I think it would look better without it. Add a simple necklace and drop earings. The third choice makes you look frumpy...which you are most decidedly NOT! How's that for an honest answer? LOL

Thanks Terri!  I LOVE the honesty!  The wrap I bought is white as are my shoes.  The bow is, unfortunately attached to the blue dress...that's the only thing I don't care for on that dress.  I was thinking about wearing my pearl necklace and earrings from when I got married (with either the blue or black dress).   Thanks!  Ruth

I think the black dress with white shoes and wrap and pearl jewelry would be perfect! Do you feel beautiful in it? Because you look amazing and your face just glows in the picture!

i love the blue and you look really good in all of them ... but i think blue  is the one..

Ruth I really like the black and white on. it look sexy...you even got a great smile in that picture so u must feel sexy in it..  others make u look to old

Ruth, You go girl!!  You look totaqlly hot!!  The black one is the best by far.  Go for it.  You earned it.  Missi

Love the black one myself that is the one I would pick. :-)

Hi all!  Thanks for the input!  The only reason I was smiling while in the black dress is because my mom kept teasing me saying the DH would never let me wear that dress as it's a bit too revealing...haha!  My DD also kept saying it looked like a dress my sister would wear..not me!  Right now, it's between the black and the blue dresses...I guess the last one will be for Church or something.  The amazing part is that I only paid $10 for the black dress at TJMaxx!  That's the only reason I got it really...just couldn't leave it at that price (AND DD said she'd wear it to homecoming or some other dance...so killing 2 birds with one stone, so to speak!  haha)   Thanks for your opinions....your vote has been registered!  haha! Happy Monday!!!  Ruth

Ruth, you want my honest opinion, "YOU look awesome".... I totally agree the black, hope you can find a bra that fits that neckline... BUT,, If I was you, I'd go with black shoes, longer/sleeker/taller/slimmer.  I was told many years ago to give yourself Height to not break up your look, as in black n white, keep with the same color if you want to look tall.  LIke a black dress with a white belt would cut you in half.  Do you understand what i'm tring to say.  White shoes would look very nice also tho, but just my opinion.  have a great time.