sorry

I want to clear up my post yesterday and appologize.  I was just noting that when I go to the Lap Band  forum and read, alot of the older posters, who were all all the time are very scarce now.  before their surgery they were on several times a day.  There are many new (pre op) people now,I also noticed it here.  I didnt' point my finger to anyone, and if I offended anyone i'm sorry.  I didn't mean it that way.  I love having all the newbies but also, love to hear from all the girls who are now experienced and doing so well.  HOpe you all accept my blunder!!  have a good day.  Cheryl

Hi Cheryl, I know what you're saying. I read the post every day. You and Ruth and KathyB, I can always count on being here. I watched you and Ruth go through your waiting and then having surgery. I am grateful that you keep updating, and look forward to it. For me, you did not make a blunder, you made me feel better about telling what was going on with me and I'm so grateful for it because I got alot of encouragement from sharing.  So please keep challenging us, it's  a good thing.  Hugs Cindy

Cindy, I know how frustrating it has been for you as it has been with me, I am trying to keep the faith, but believe me I have my days.  Ruth is so awesome and supportive, I wish I could be 1/2 as dedicated as she is.  She was so successful even before her surgery.  I know this sounds aweful, but when your doing bad, or haveing some bumps in the road, you almost want to hear from others that are doing the same.  when I hear how wonderful everyone else is doing, it should encourage me, but it don't, I just get stubborn and want to run away.  SO I think it is very important to hear the "BAD" stuff, haha, if you know what I mean.  not just the good.  that is just my opinion.  I LOVE the Maine Board, these girls can't get any better.  I often go to the Lap Band site, cause I see others who are having the same issues as me there, but it don't compare to the support I get here. so... there you go!!!  just mhy opionion....  Cindy, lets make a pack, tomorrow till next Wed. we follow and do the best we can, and see if we can see a difference.  I will let you know everything I eat "GOOD OR BAD" and what I do for exercise.  OK? you up for that?   Hugs, cheryl

Cheryl...wow...you make me sound like I'm some kinda angel or something!  haha...that is SO far off from how I see things!  I have my rough spots too...every day here recently!  Feel free to read my blogs of yesterday and today!  This IS a struggle some days!  I DON'T regret having this done at all....but there are days when I'm struggling.  I think we all will and it's normal.  I've had plenty of bumps in the road and I know there will be more.......lots more!  I'm just soooo happy that you all can support and understand where I'm coming from!  I'm just trying to return the favor sometimes...  Cheryl, Cindy, and everyone out there struggling....some days more than others.....you are NOT alone....WE ALL have our struggles.....guess I blog about mine instead of posting them.....haha!   Hope you all have a wonderful evening!  Ruth

You are an Angel, OUR Angel...

No apology needed, Cheryl. I certainly didn't take it as finger pointing either. You just made a very valid observation...that's all. You may be correct in your assumption that there are some out there that "feel they don't need the support anymore" but, believe me, that can be the farthest thing from the truth for many of us, even if we don't want to initially admit it. I, for one, never thought of weight-loss as a "group" thing. (I never could get into Weigh****chers) as I"ve always felt that weight-loss was an individual's decision and journey. Believe me, since coming to this forum and really feeling the support and love that is generated here, my thinking on that subject has changed. Maybe I was just not ready to face the awful truth about my own weight and health. I found this site AFTER my surgery and I'm ever so glad I did! The information, suggestions and FRIENDSHIP has really been a Godsend in many respects. I thank God daily that there is a group of people out there *****ally care.....whether they really know me or not. My husband tries to be supportive and is, for the most part. But he does have an envious streak in him. When someone mentions my weight-loss in his presence, he may not say much in front of the person but will later complain that HE is trying to lose yet no one notices. He is prone to "self-pity parties" occasionally which does not make for a pleasing environment during the episode. Again, apologies are NOT needed. You made an observation, and a good one at that. Anne