I knew this day would come and I want to scream!!!!!

sorry your having a bad day.. I had this one lady told me not to have surgey because I would have to change my life so much and she didnt think I could do it. This is a friend so I thought,, now she is jealous of how much weight I have lost. SO you know what she said to me the othe day was you might have lost alot of weigh but you still have a gut that is all skin.. I looked right at her and walked up to her and grabbed her hand and put it on my top fat roll (so I call it) and said feel that is all fat and if i had just extra skin i will have it cut off. she was so pissed she walked off and hasnt spoke to me since.. People have opinions and i voice mine but not to be mean..  Ya know when people need heart surgery there is nothing wrong with getting it fix,,and people saying it good they got it fixed to save their life, whats the difference of us have what every surgery to help us lose weight and get heathy..People just dont under stand exspecially the people that have been skinny all there life. they just think we are lazy.. I want to tell you I am not a lazy person I just needed help and I GOT IT.... people just think we are taking the easy way out. i would like them to walk in my shoes exspecailly the first 3 months and tell me it easy.. Sorry for the rant. Screw people that say that if you want this surgery than have it. dont let people ruin your thoughts and your happiness to get healthy..screw them and the horse they rode in on.. If I had a dollar of ever person that told me not to have this I could park my school bus and move to camp now..  Dont let her or anyone else bring you down or make you feel bad.. hold your head High if this is what you want....I could go on for hours..your doing this for ONLY YOU....

Thank you so much, your right.  I have nothing to be ashamed of and no one has the right to voice their opinions on the decisions I make.  I WILL be healthy, and I WILL be skinny and they will eat their words. With Gods help and the trememdous support I've found here how can I fail?  thanks again