It wasnt ment to be
Patty, I first of all am very sorry for your loss. 2nd, I believe that with every heartache there are lots of rainbows. I too lost a baby at 12/16weeks term and had to have a DNC after. Thought my world had ended. That was 23 years ago. I still think about what kind of person would have been if it would have lived. Something you never get over. But that is not the end of my story, 2 years later I had a beautiful baby girl. She means more to me than anything. She makes her own goals and achieves them. She is a voice major at Juilliard and this summer is studing in Italy on a grant. She calls me every day and is so full of life. So I believe that you will have the child of your dreams when the time is right. I will keep you in my prayers