I am Nervous

Ok so I have went through my 6 months and when I went to see my PSYCHO man he really discouraged  me.

He made it seem like I was doing it all for my and not thinking of my family. Because my children deoend on me and my husband so much that I would be out for a couple of weeks and they could not bear that.

But the reality is I am only thinking of my children that is why we are doing it (my husband and I) My kids love to go bike riding and go for walks but I have knee and back problems and my husband has knee problems and that is why we want to do it so we can lead  a healthty lifestyle together.

I guess he just made me upset because I did not go to him to critize why I was doing it but I am afraid of the letter he is going to send over to my ins. or my surgeon......


WHAT AM I TO DO......

How absolutely assinine!  To tell you not to save your life now, so you can be there for your children?  Are you able to see another doctor?  Just like in a medical situatiom - I think a 2nd opinion would be in order.  Best of luck to you! 

I have called my insurance company about it an they havce sent me some information to see another one.

I just didnt know was I in the wrong for feeling this way. and I did have my children in mind while i ws considering haveing the surgery

I am sorry this psych made you feel that way.  If it wasn't for you and your family who would you be doing it for?  I know I did it so that I an spend quality fun time with my family. 

I am glad you are looking for another psych.  So I was wondering what did he ever say in the letter.  Did they receive it yet? 

I hope that all goes well and you find a spych that can relate to how you feel. 

Wishing you all the best and don't let anyone make you feel guilty for your decision. 
Do NOT give up!

Cira