very very upset!

I was in a black pea coat and my son had on a red Capitals hoodie.  Did you see us?

No I dont remember seeing you. So weird we probably looked at each other. lol

We hung out right there in the front lobby and in the t-shirt shop.  I say we go back and let that host have it!  The more I think about him and his stupidity, the more frustrated I become.  The guy knew there were several groups of people looking for each other.  Why didn't he just point one of us in the right direction?????   LOL!!!!  

I am sorry that this happened to you. (((((hugs)))))

Ginger,
He is now on the Eastern shore at PRMC in Salisbury because when it happend he was living down here in Severna Park and they flew him to Shock Trauma and he was there for months. They were really surprised he lived past the first 72 hours. My parents live with my grandma in OC on 139th st. So they were driving and staying down here with me or my sis every week for days at a time and just going home for a day or two then would head right back. So it was alot of driving for them. So they had him transfered out to the eastern shore. Besides Shock trauma was giving them a hard time and trying to force them into putting him into hospice. My mom refused and sent him to PRMC. Now PRMC wants him out and trying to sue my parents for gardian ship over him so me and my sis been heading down to the court cases. The next one is Feb 4th. Like my parents arent going through enough. Now they have people trying to take control over him.
 
It has been just an awful situation with each hospital he has been in. Basically docs think he wont survive and has no chance of ever recovering. That he will stay in this state. Hes already had some close calls went into cardiac arrest. My parents dont want to sign a DNR and they want everyone to keep trying to save him no matter what it takes. It's a matter of opinion in this case. Alot of people will say my parents are being selfish but then on the other side its so hard as a parent. Now that I have my daughter I look at her and say would I give up on miracles and just pull her feeding tube. So its a very difficult situation no matter which way you look at it. My mom just keeps saying I will never give up on my baby. So God will have to take him because my mom will never make that decision.
So we are in OC pretty often. You dont live too far from them. My mom actually works down at the OC police dept. Me and my sis try to visit often as we can because my mom is just lost right now.

So sad Shannon it is a very difficult decision. I am a strong advocate for living wills so people know ahead of time what someones wishes would be. As a parent I can't imagine being in her shoes but I work in a hospital and it happens every day. I know how vibrant my girls are and I believe and they have told me that they wouldn't want to live like that. I pray things get easier for her.   It's good that they could move him closer but it doesn't sound easier. 

Kelly

Kelly,
I always say I dont know how people work in hospitals. It just seems so hard but I guess people get used to it.
Thanks so much I hope things can get better somehow.

That is definitely a very difficult situation.  I don't think I could ever make a decision like that on any of my children.  Big hugs to you and your Mom.  I will definitely be saying prayers for your borther and Mom. 

All the best,

Cira

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that alot!!

I am here for you if you ever need to talk.  ((hugs))