Wishing you all a very HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Jilly Durbin
on 12/31/09 10:07 am - Pasadena, MD

Thank you Julie!! Your adorable! I was sad honey...so so sad. I had no energy ever and I hid from everyone all the time. I skipped so many parties and weddings because I was afraid to be the biggest one there and have the all eyes on me kind of thing. Now I walk with my head held so much higher and my energy can be through the roof at times. I have an entire new lease on life. I love my RNY and I am so glad I made this choice for my life. I love being a loser ;o) And I am so glad I have come to know you...........your one of the sweetest people I know on here. Can you make the Hard Rock Cafe brunch in Jan? I would LOVE to have you there. (((Hugs))) Happy New Year sweetie!

julie16
on 12/31/09 10:37 am - crofton, MD

Jilly, I would love to come but you know I feel like I would be judged. I do not mean by you in any way. I know just what you mean by missing things. I will do my best to make the event. I think that this is mind game that I have played for so many years. I have been trying to be accepted for so long. I hope you can understand and please do not not feel this is directed at you. Thanks for your support and kind words.

Hugs,

Julie

Jilly Durbin
on 12/31/09 11:18 am - Pasadena, MD

RNY on 12/04/08

Awwwww trust me I do know how you feel BUT you will be with ME and you so would NOT be judged honey in any way. This group of people that will be there are so NOT like that. They are warm and loving and supportive. There will be a few losers in training there and even rookie losers there honey. We will ALL EMBRACE YOU!!! You have to start somewhere so just let me know if you change your mind and you can even ride with me :o) (((Hugs))) Love ~Jilly~

julie16
on 12/31/09 11:59 am - crofton, MD

Oh Thanks so much Jilly. You are such a kind person. I do appreciate your support and offer for a ride. I will do my best to try and come. If not I will try to come to an event closer to home. I will let you know when the date gets closer. Hugs to you and thanks.

Julie

Jilly Durbin
on 12/31/09 12:08 pm - Pasadena, MD

RNY on 12/04/08

Your so so welcome sweet pea!! I go to the Crofton area OFTEN so anytime you want to meet up for dinner or something just shoot me an email okay.
(((Hugs)))

Crash220
on 12/31/09 5:17 pm - Reisterstown, MD

RNY on 08/10/09

Hey Jilly,
Happy New Year, wow such a difference, I never knew you as the BIG Jilly, only the wonderful person you are now. So I can't judge as as a before and after as far as the personality, but now you are a winner in both personality and physically.

Tom

People laugh because I'm different, I laugh because they are all the same

Jilly Durbin
on 12/31/09 11:13 pm - Pasadena, MD

RNY on 12/04/08

Thank you Tom (((Hugs))) That was a very nice thing to say. I have not changed as far as who I am just what I look like but that was a HUGE change in itself. Im so glad I got to meet you in 2009 and hope we are friends for many many years to come. HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and your family honey. I hope you got to kiss the girls at midnight..........they are super cute!!!!

LovinLifeThinner
on 12/31/09 11:22 pm

VSG on 12/16/08

Happy New Year Jilly and I hope this is your best year ever!
You are not only a beautiful person outside but you are a beautiful person inside.
Thanks for all you support your the best.
{{Hugs}} Lois