A Question for the Moms
I agree with Dani here on this one. Any child who is challenged regardless of age should have some form of supervision. Now if she did not have any challenges she would be okay. My 11 year old stays home sometimes when we run to the store or do quick errands. She is very smart and able to care for herself but we still dont like to leave her for too long.
How long are you talking Candy? And what time of day, etc. I'd probably be comfortable if it were no more than 30 mins max.
I have a 13 yo niece who I trust to stay alone, regardless of the time of day or how long. I'd even trust her with her 4 yo sister. (and have trusted them together in the pool.) Now they have an older 15 yo step sister whom I would not trust alone, or with the 4 yo in the house (and def NOT in my pool...) The 15 yo is quite emotionally immature, doesn't listen or follow directions well, low self-esteem and very introverted. also prone to quick temper changes.
Go with your gut. I think you already know the answer or you wouldn't be asking.
I have a 13 yo niece who I trust to stay alone, regardless of the time of day or how long. I'd even trust her with her 4 yo sister. (and have trusted them together in the pool.) Now they have an older 15 yo step sister whom I would not trust alone, or with the 4 yo in the house (and def NOT in my pool...) The 15 yo is quite emotionally immature, doesn't listen or follow directions well, low self-esteem and very introverted. also prone to quick temper changes.
Go with your gut. I think you already know the answer or you wouldn't be asking.
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Hi Candy,
I love your new avatar. I'm assuming that it was taken on vacation, you look really happy!! I hope you had a fun and relaxing trip! I know it was probably too short. It's amazing how much faster the week goes by when you don't work! As far as your situation, I am a mother of two boys,and my degree is in early childhood education. The reality is there is no way to answer that question without meeting the child. My boys have above average intelligence, but one of my sons who is 25 yrs old now, I still worry about some of his choices and decisions. The bottom line is if they are living in your home, you make the rules. You lead a way too busy life to have to worry about your home and the child. No amount of money is worth not having peace of mind!! Good Luck, and if you are still torn, you can always talk to the girls Doc or teachers for insight. Peace, Leslie:)
I love your new avatar. I'm assuming that it was taken on vacation, you look really happy!! I hope you had a fun and relaxing trip! I know it was probably too short. It's amazing how much faster the week goes by when you don't work! As far as your situation, I am a mother of two boys,and my degree is in early childhood education. The reality is there is no way to answer that question without meeting the child. My boys have above average intelligence, but one of my sons who is 25 yrs old now, I still worry about some of his choices and decisions. The bottom line is if they are living in your home, you make the rules. You lead a way too busy life to have to worry about your home and the child. No amount of money is worth not having peace of mind!! Good Luck, and if you are still torn, you can always talk to the girls Doc or teachers for insight. Peace, Leslie:)
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