Healthy Reflection
The choices you make today will determine the path that your life will take. When you sit back and look at the decisions you've made in your life, are you happy with the route you've paved? If you're not, make a change today. The next time you make a choice, ask yourself if this decision will lead you to the path you want to travel along. Set some new goals that will lead you to your dreams and then plan your course.
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
It is a support group but you wanted to post a cheap shot there. So make up your mind you block people or you don't?
You mean you block your family members but not total complete strangers on a forum that like to back stab, and throw cheap shots? Why must you contradict yourself?
Yes it is a support forum and yesterday people wanted to get on the very support forum that they rarely support others here on line and rehash stuff.
That is why you fell in that category since it's NOT the 1st time you have mentioned it here before.
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
I typed up a very long response to this about 20 minutes ago but for whatever reason it did not show up on the board.
Im sorry you felt as though my response to you was a cheap shot. How can you get that from that? You turned around something I wrote and made it what YOU WANTED IT TO BE! That is unfair to me. You know it too. I said no such thing to you. I dont block anyone on this board because its for support! Everyone on the board that knows me KNOWS I DONT BLOCK PEOPLE! If someone doesnt like me that is their LOSS but I am not going to block them from seeing support or threads I post to help EVERYONE!!! I am not a vendictive person and nor am I mean spirited. I dont look at life like that at all Cira! I dont have to block someone to prove a point. Its not a game I play.
With that said I will tell you just how WRONG you are my dear. When I saw your post I thought it was nice and whenever I see a post hanging out there with no response if I am on I will respond. I dont like to see anyone have a thread with no responses. I read it and thought it was nice so I wanted to respond.
I AM A VICTIM OF RAPE>>>My own FATHER
(YES FAMILY) RAPED ME AT AGE 12 YEARS OLD!!! I have never turned to drinking drugs or anything else of that nature to heal my wounds. NEVER! I always just BLOCKED IT OUT OF MY LIFE and last night learned I HAVE TO LET IT GO!! BLOCKING IT is the same as putting a BAND AID ON IT>>>>ITS STILL THERE! So I had to forgive him and LET IT GO so I could get past the hurt and the anger. So now I know I cant block it and I have to listen to Mike and others who care for me when they tell me that is what is best!!!! I LET IT GO!!!! I hope I never in my life ever see him again and I havent since that day when I was 12 but I cant carry that around because my mind can say its BLOCKED but it is so NOT so I had to forgive and LET GO!!! It was a HUGE STEP for me last night! HUGE HUGE HUGE step for me!! And I am very proud of myself.
So that is what I meant by my posting that you disected and twisted into something that you have going on with someone else that I AM NOT INVOLVED IN and for that you were WRONG!!!
I am sorry you had such horrible things happen in your life. You are definitely not alone in that department is not an easy road to walk on. I wish you the best in that situation.
Now as far as me getting anything twisted you are wrong my dear. It doesn't really matter to me if no one answers to my posts. You never do post anymore on my threads so for you to bring up the block thing on this post it made me think since yesterday was the day of rehashing past crap that happens on this forum well yes that is what it made me think you was doing.
In case you have forgotten you have brought up that subject plenty of times and if you don't remember how you tell everyone how much better you are for not doing so I can get the posts and reposts them so you can see why I thought that.
I have nothing going on with anyone. That is why I use the block button. If someone doen't like me good for them if I don't like them well so sorry for them. I just move along and post things that I think might be encouraging for those that might get some benefit from it. I am done with those people that like to keep rehashing and bringing up stuff and stirring the pot. That is why I utilize that block button.
I am done with this subject so this will be my last response on this matter.
Sincerely I wish you the best.
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
I'm not always proud of the choices/decisions I've made, but I DO try to own them. If I screw up and need to apologize, I do. I often find myself apologizing even when I've no control over something, just to make peace.
Sometimes, taking the higher road is the best solution, while other times, there's no purpose served in rehashing a situation, so MY personal choice is then to put it on IGNORE.
Hugs,
Tia
Yes exactly but sometimes some people think that rehashing is the better route and they just like to stir the pot.
Ignore or Block? I say block because ignoring sometimes doesn't work.
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
Alot of crap has happened in my life before I met Jerry- people who know my life story swear it should be a Lifetime movie, or as one put it, a mini series type movie. Maybe I'll wait for Tia to retire, and we could co-author the book of my life. Tia? You game? I know I can trust you because you do not judge people by the cover. :)
