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On August 19, 2009 at 4:19 PM Pacific Time, Lisa B. wrote:
I don't know who you are talking about, but you must be pretty important to her if she has to create another name just to see what you are saying! ;)you don't need another personality to read this board. you need another personality to read R and R.
this board is wide open to any and everyone in the world. including employers.
Nessa
Ticker is from Day of Surgery.. weight goal is personal preference as I've MET my doctor's goal
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HG/SW/CW/GW
286/253/150/151
Ticker is from Day of Surgery.. weight goal is personal preference as I've MET my doctor's goal
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HG/SW/CW/GW
286/253/150/151
I am too damn nosy to block anyone... Irk me and I may not speak to you again, but you can bet I want to know what is going on...
And I admit laziness means I don't create new profiles... I have enough drama in my life (anyone want a new Mom, I have one for sale or trade, at this point I might even pay someone to worry about her for a while, so I can have a break!)
I just want to be, I don't care who doesn't like me, hoping to never get to the point someone hates me, and if you love me, all the better. If you don't fall into one of those categories, you aren't even worth meeting :)
And I admit laziness means I don't create new profiles... I have enough drama in my life (anyone want a new Mom, I have one for sale or trade, at this point I might even pay someone to worry about her for a while, so I can have a break!)
I just want to be, I don't care who doesn't like me, hoping to never get to the point someone hates me, and if you love me, all the better. If you don't fall into one of those categories, you aren't even worth meeting :)
Angie
Ok, I think I am calm enough to reply to your post Cira! Did I read your post correctly? Has some one blocked you? OMG that is crazy! You of all people, always a kind word, always positive, always sees the good in everyone and everything! Some of these people that have this high school behavior, need to grow up, or start a site for adults with teenage behaviors interested in WLS! This is the exact reason that these sites really want all communication done on the boards. They really don't recommend meeting each other or getting too personal. This is not the intent of what this forum is all about. That is why some are better off going to the surgery site,or other sites where you don't live in someone else's backyards, some people are not mature enough to deal with the forum, as it was meant to be. Helping others with WLS info, the good, the bad and the ugly! A warm body to listen to your fears at 4in the am, sharing experiences, needing a cheerleader etc. I truly believe that some on the Md site, have lost their focus and compassion, with all this bull**** behavior! EVERYONE WILL NOT LIKE EVERYONE! that's life. If you were more interested in helping others, and not going out to lunch because so and so will be there, maybe,just maybe we could be more productive as a group of people trying to overcome Eating Disorders! So, I think we all need to take a deep breath, and think about what this board means to you. Think about, the one's you have made a difference to, and who has made a difference for you! All I can say is that I am so happy that I had my WLS when I did, because this site meant everything to me. The truth being, I really don't know if I would have had WLS, without the beautiful people on this site. I always knew, no matter what that day had in store for me,it didn't matter, because my family on the OH forum would be there, ALWAYS! So, I feel so sad, for the ones that are looking at the site for the first time and reading this crap, ALL PERSONAL CRAP! that can be conducted in so many other ways, E Mail, ever hear about it??Well if nothing else I think I gave you food for thought, and if this does become my last post on this site, I would like to tell the ones, who have guided me, supported me and loved me. Thanks for being you. You know who you are, and I wish there was something I could do for you, to show my gratitude, but everything pails in comparison. So, I will offer to you, my love, support and guidance always, xoxo Leslie
Ohh Leslie don't take it to heart. Like Isaid it made my day. I just had to call out the person for their snarky remarks. I got tired of it and let go so I got blocked. I am not crying over spilled milk.
I tried ignoring for a good while but..... Well no worries! This place is still for support and friendship. Don't let one bad apple ruin the rest.
Big hugs to you.....
I tried ignoring for a good while but..... Well no worries! This place is still for support and friendship. Don't let one bad apple ruin the rest.
Big hugs to you.....
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
Oh Cira, Believe you me, I feel great! I feel cleansed. I have been bottling up all these feelings for so long, hoping they would go away, but they didn't. Now I am at peace, because I said my piece! LOL Cira, I will always have your back! FYI- I DON'T EAT APPLES, I FIND THEY HAVE WORMS!! LOVE YA, LESLIE:)
I am glad you let it all out. LOL Doesn't it feel good? LOL
I had to laugh about not eating apples. Thank you for having my back.
Love ya too!
(((((hugs))))
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
Cira:
I understand why you had to call someone out.
and the idea of having two seperate profiles just to know what is going on is down right paranoia.
I have been a member of many different types of social networks on line and found that blocking someone in my opinon was totally childish. Ie reference to those that are seeking wls and have
adolescant attitudes. Please don't take offense to what I am saying. This is not directed at you.
You are always so sweet and supportive I don't know how any one could have a reason to block you. But lets face it we are adults here and come here for a common reason. information, support, compassion and understanding, ie common ground. Basicaly i think if you can't deal with what is being said to you, about you, or opinions are different then you should just not be here.
I read posts that I don't agree with, in these cases either I don't post an opinion, because the subject matter is of little or no interest or I agree to disagree respectfully. That is the way I am expected to be behave. I would not embarass Zell with such bad behaviour. I love and respect Him too much.
I have seen this kind of thing litterally break social networks, and its sad.
Bottom line for me is I will never block anyone
and will always treat others as I would like others to treat me.
Hugs and smiles to you Cira, your a lovely person
Zells_lori is "abuddingrose"
I understand why you had to call someone out.
and the idea of having two seperate profiles just to know what is going on is down right paranoia.
I have been a member of many different types of social networks on line and found that blocking someone in my opinon was totally childish. Ie reference to those that are seeking wls and have
adolescant attitudes. Please don't take offense to what I am saying. This is not directed at you.
You are always so sweet and supportive I don't know how any one could have a reason to block you. But lets face it we are adults here and come here for a common reason. information, support, compassion and understanding, ie common ground. Basicaly i think if you can't deal with what is being said to you, about you, or opinions are different then you should just not be here.
I read posts that I don't agree with, in these cases either I don't post an opinion, because the subject matter is of little or no interest or I agree to disagree respectfully. That is the way I am expected to be behave. I would not embarass Zell with such bad behaviour. I love and respect Him too much.
I have seen this kind of thing litterally break social networks, and its sad.
Bottom line for me is I will never block anyone
and will always treat others as I would like others to treat me.
Hugs and smiles to you Cira, your a lovely person
Zells_lori is "abuddingrose"
Yes that's exactly what I was doing not responding to the posts that I chose not to answer and I have to get this woman getting on her high horse with her snarky remarks. I am the type of person that if I don't like someone and don't want to deal with a particular person i just ignore it and keep it moving. But Damn sometimes enough is enough! LOL
So get this she unblocks me to post on this thread and so I am like what is your problem? Can't you understand I want nothign to do with you? So I blocked her.... Simple as that. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
Thanks hon I am smiling as always.
I hope you are feeling well and your eye dr appointment went well.
Hugs,
Cira
So get this she unblocks me to post on this thread and so I am like what is your problem? Can't you understand I want nothign to do with you? So I blocked her.... Simple as that. Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.
Thanks hon I am smiling as always.
I hope you are feeling well and your eye dr appointment went well.
Hugs,
Cira
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
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