HAPPY FIRST SURGIVERSARY, LISA!!!
WOO-HOO!!!! YOU'VE COME A LONG WAY BABY!!!!!!
I'm so dang proud of you!! And I, for one, am really glad you decided to have wls - not for just the obvious reasons, but because it gave me a chance to know a truly amazing woman!!
Do something for yourself to celebrate, please!! You SOOOO deserve it!!!
Hugs and love,![](http://images.obesityhelp.com/_shared/images/smiley/msn/kiss2.gif)
Tia
I'm so dang proud of you!! And I, for one, am really glad you decided to have wls - not for just the obvious reasons, but because it gave me a chance to know a truly amazing woman!!
Do something for yourself to celebrate, please!! You SOOOO deserve it!!!
Hugs and love,
![](http://images.obesityhelp.com/_shared/images/smiley/msn/kiss2.gif)
Tia
Tia & all: ![](http://images.obesityhelp.com/_shared/images/smiley/msn/kiss2.gif)
Thanks so much for the recognition. In my other life I would have never wanted to be called out, but this anniversary is the most important (okay ~ one of the most important) things that has ever happened in my life. As many of you know, I went to the Dr on Monday for my 1 year check up and it was not good and it was truely deserved. In the past 9 months I have lost only about 40'ish pounds. In total I have lost about 120 since surgery. I am not at goal and I deserved the kick in the pants. For all you newbies or pre-ops realize that the surgery can only do so much. You have to "get your mind right." My NUT told me to write a "good bye" letter to food and she thought that might help. She told me that I was mourning the loss of food. I don't think that's so. I feel disappointed in myself in allowing me to move back toward my old habits.
I have realized that food has taken so much from me in my life. It has held me back in so many ways. There are things that I didn't or wasn't able to do growing up because of my weight. At 44 years old, I am still letting old habits creep back in. The same old habits that made me sit at home the night of the high school prom, or didn't get me a date until I was about 18 years old or made me an embarrasment for many people to hang out with. During the past year, I have had a glimps of what I can achieve with this surgery. I can become a confident woman that is not afraid to put herself out there. Not afraid to try to fit in the booth or walk through a crowd of people without having your stomach bump everyone or having to turn sideways and pray that you will fit. That is the woman that I want to be. That is the woman that I know I can be!
I am truely blessed to have found this site and the people here, because I know that this is the one place that i can come, where people understand what I am going through. Where I can get the support and the knowledge and the kick-in-the-pants that I need to make it through this journey.
Thanks to everyone here that I have met and to those that I haven't, I look forward to meeting you and sharing what I have to give.
![](http://images.obesityhelp.com/_shared/images/smiley/msn/kiss2.gif)
Thanks so much for the recognition. In my other life I would have never wanted to be called out, but this anniversary is the most important (okay ~ one of the most important) things that has ever happened in my life. As many of you know, I went to the Dr on Monday for my 1 year check up and it was not good and it was truely deserved. In the past 9 months I have lost only about 40'ish pounds. In total I have lost about 120 since surgery. I am not at goal and I deserved the kick in the pants. For all you newbies or pre-ops realize that the surgery can only do so much. You have to "get your mind right." My NUT told me to write a "good bye" letter to food and she thought that might help. She told me that I was mourning the loss of food. I don't think that's so. I feel disappointed in myself in allowing me to move back toward my old habits.
I have realized that food has taken so much from me in my life. It has held me back in so many ways. There are things that I didn't or wasn't able to do growing up because of my weight. At 44 years old, I am still letting old habits creep back in. The same old habits that made me sit at home the night of the high school prom, or didn't get me a date until I was about 18 years old or made me an embarrasment for many people to hang out with. During the past year, I have had a glimps of what I can achieve with this surgery. I can become a confident woman that is not afraid to put herself out there. Not afraid to try to fit in the booth or walk through a crowd of people without having your stomach bump everyone or having to turn sideways and pray that you will fit. That is the woman that I want to be. That is the woman that I know I can be!
I am truely blessed to have found this site and the people here, because I know that this is the one place that i can come, where people understand what I am going through. Where I can get the support and the knowledge and the kick-in-the-pants that I need to make it through this journey.
Thanks to everyone here that I have met and to those that I haven't, I look forward to meeting you and sharing what I have to give.
Lisa Z.
When we believe, all things are possible!
Sniff.....so eloquent and from the heart!!
I have to add something though - You're also now a woman not afraid to plow through a crowded NYC street after getting bombed on 1/2 a glass of wine!!!! LOL!!!
Love ya, girl and I look forward to seeing you this summer for a repeat of our OC lunch!!
MUAH!!!!
T
I have to add something though - You're also now a woman not afraid to plow through a crowded NYC street after getting bombed on 1/2 a glass of wine!!!! LOL!!!
Love ya, girl and I look forward to seeing you this summer for a repeat of our OC lunch!!
MUAH!!!!
T
LisaCongratulations you have done fantastic! Sorry I missed the day!! I was out of town my brother had surgery and tied up with mother in law in the hospital. I didn't post my surgery anniversary on the board not sure if I will, it was nice of Tia to do that for you it is always better when it comes from someone else. I still have a problem blowing my own horn so to speak. Still going to work on the weightloss group for the eastern shore, let me know if you have a possibility of a site then we can proceed from there.
hugs
Terri
hugs
Terri