HAPPY FIRST SURGIVERSARY, LISA!!!

(deactivated member)
on 5/19/09 11:04 pm - Middle River, MD
WOO-HOO!!!!  YOU'VE COME A LONG WAY BABY!!!!!! 

I'm so dang proud of you!!  And I, for one, am really glad you decided to have wls - not for just the obvious reasons, but because it gave me a chance to know a truly amazing woman!!

Do something for yourself to celebrate, please!!  You SOOOO deserve it!!!

Hugs and love,

Tia
Debbie L.
on 5/19/09 11:07 pm - Baltimore, MD
Happy Surgiversary, Lisa! I admire and respect you in so many ways!

Debbie
justthebeginning
on 5/19/09 11:24 pm - Cambridge, MD
Tia & all:  

Thanks so much for the recognition.  In my other life I would have never wanted to be called out, but this anniversary is the most important (okay ~ one of the most important) things that has ever happened in my life.  As many of you know, I went to the Dr on Monday for my 1 year check up and it was not good and it was truely deserved.  In the past 9 months I have lost only about 40'ish pounds. In total I have lost about 120 since surgery.  I am not at goal and I deserved the kick in the pants.  For all you newbies or pre-ops realize that the surgery can only do so much.  You have to "get your mind right."  My NUT told me to write a "good bye" letter to food and she thought that might help.  She told me that I was mourning the loss of food.  I don't think that's so.  I feel disappointed in myself in allowing me to move back toward my old habits. 
I have realized that food has taken so much from me in my life.  It has held me back in so many ways.  There are things that I didn't or wasn't able to do growing up because of my weight.  At 44 years old, I am still letting old habits creep back in.  The same old habits that made me sit at home the night of the high school prom, or didn't get me a date until I was about 18 years old or made me an embarrasment for many people to hang out with.  During the past year, I have had a glimps of what I can achieve with this surgery.  I can become a confident woman that is not afraid to put herself out there.  Not afraid to try to fit in the booth or walk through a crowd of people without having your stomach bump everyone or having to turn sideways and pray that you will fit.  That is the woman that I want to be.  That is the woman that I know I can be! 
I am truely blessed to have found this site and the people here, because I know that this is the one place that i can come, where people understand what I am going through.  Where I can get the support and the knowledge and the kick-in-the-pants that I need to make it through this journey.

Thanks to everyone here that I have met and to those that I haven't, I look forward to meeting you and sharing what I have to give. 

Lisa Z.

When we believe, all things are possible!

(deactivated member)
on 5/19/09 11:35 pm - Middle River, MD
Sniff.....so eloquent and from the heart!!

I have to add something though - You're also now a woman not afraid to plow through a crowded NYC street after getting bombed on 1/2 a glass of wine!!!!  LOL!!!

Love ya, girl and I look forward to seeing you this summer for a repeat of our OC lunch!!

MUAH!!!!

T
justthebeginning
on 5/19/09 11:41 pm - Cambridge, MD

GURL:

Ya know I love ya!!!!  Can't wait for OC again!!!

I was thinking about Deb this morning ~ have you heard from her?

Lisa Z.

When we believe, all things are possible!

(deactivated member)
on 5/20/09 12:17 am - Middle River, MD
Nope, haven't heard from her.  She was supposed to call me when she was in Baltimore after we were in NYC, but I guess she had a better offer!!!

I haven't seen her on any milk cartons, so I guess that's good news!!!

Hugs,

T
Boxer Heather
on 5/20/09 1:45 am - Grasonville, MD
You better tell me when this OC lunch is!!!!! 

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(deactivated member)
on 5/20/09 1:50 am - Middle River, MD
Well, I'm there from 7/18-7/25, and last year it was the Sunday after I arrived, so I'll shoot for 7/19 and let you know!!!

T
Boxer Heather
on 5/20/09 2:19 am - Grasonville, MD
Got it...hopefully I WON'T be on travel then...there's a lot of that coming up the second half of this year..UGH!

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THERESAMARIE
on 5/25/09 1:29 am
LisaCongratulations you have done fantastic!  Sorry I missed the day!! I was out of town my brother had surgery and tied up with mother in law in the hospital.  I didn't post my surgery anniversary on the board not sure if I will, it was nice of Tia to do that for you it is always better when it comes from someone else.  I still have a problem blowing my own horn so to speak.  Still going to work on the weightloss group  for the eastern shore, let me know if you have a possibility of a site then we can proceed from there.

hugs
Terri


Taking the Journey One Day at a Time!Terri

        
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