Need to Apoligize...

Hello To All 1st I want to say thanks to all of you for trying to support me even since I havent had wls yet. I appreciate all you do and all the great ideas and opinions. Last week was a very bad week for me I tried to stay upbeat and smiling but I think it took its toll on me. I might have come off rude and nasty . Maybe I even was to sensitive at some point.  I am truly sorry for that.. As most of you know my mom has been very ill and I have an alcoholic brother who has moved back to her home. It is a nightmare there between the drinking and him stealing from her home. He stole  and old coin collection that belonged to my dads dad not to mention so much else. Alot of my time last week was spent there being a referee. I want to put him out but he has been there 3 years and the police said I cant make him leave.  I will have to try to go to court. As my mom lives in PG County. We found that the cancer is still in her lung and theres not much else to be done. The tumor has shrunk some though. Her dementia is getting worse as she is always looking for things that dont exist and hearing things that are not there. I hope she doesnt become combative...  Its to the point she cant do much for herself this is the hardest thing I could have imagined. I love my mom and brother and I say how can I kick my own brother out but something must be done. I have talked till I am blue in the face. I have asked him to go to treatment but he refuses to go. I am so tired.. You all have saved me from so much pain and hell.. Thanks again. I am really sorry if I hurt or offened anyone last week.. Love you all.. Sorry to vent but I needed it so bad...



                                                      Julie

Julie,

I am not aware of anything you need to apologize for. This is an open forum. As human beings we all have our good days and our challenging days. don't worry about it.

I am so sorry you have so much to deal with right now. It does sound quite heart-wrenching. I can't make it all resolve itself for you. All I can do is offer my support and pray for you to be strong as you deal with all of this. Please hang in there.

Hugs!

Debbie

I appreciate your thoughts. I think I came off snappy to Tia about a comment she made and I took it personally and i should have never did that. I jumped before I thought.  I have been so stressed I just snap. I am doing my best to hold it together and stay on my food plan.  I have an appt with my nut Wed. I hope I can get to that before my phone rings from Moms for help..

  Thanks Debbie.....Julie

Ditto to what Debbie said!!!

Tia

i am new here, but just wanted to let you know that i will be praying for  your family.  i will pray for you to have peace and less stress and to be comforted that you are in His hands and he hears you and stands with you and catches every tear.
no apologies needed this is a stressful time for you.

on my knees, in His hands,
amber

ditto ditto ditto? is that too many dittos? i looked over your posts and they all seemed pretty nice to me. you are being too hard on yourself. you should be forgiving yourself for hurting you, not others! i hope your situation resolves itself positively. good luck!

Julie,

I think you're great.  I hadn't noticed any bad mood.  I hope things work out for your family.  :)

Jenn

(((((((((((Julie)))))))))))  No need to appologize :  I'll keep your family in my prayers!!!

{{{{Julie}}}} I'm sorry that you are facing difficulties at this time.  Peace and Blessings, -Antoinette