Therapy, yes or no?

julie16
on 3/10/09 7:29 am - crofton, MD
Hello Lisa and Gail, My dad was the alcoholic and now my 43 year old brother has taken his place. I guess I have the food part. I can remember my mom saying when we had problems can I make you all somthing to eat.. To this day she still says that.... Never dealt with any problems just stuffed em down. I think you all have done an amazing job and if you need therapy go for it.... You can always try to work things out on your own and maybe even try some type of group help so you wont feel so alone...

                                                                                   Julie
Loser's visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.

Mom I hope you rest in Peace knowing that you were loved and will be missed. Keep love alive in your       heart as I know I will. You are now an           and I know you will be looking down on us from above......... I am OK.......
justthebeginning
on 3/10/09 7:35 am - Cambridge, MD

Julie:
I laugh now, but it really isn't that funny.  My mom used to tell me "you can't cry with an Oreo in your mouth."  It was true, I couldn't cry then, but I sure have paid for it my whole entire life.

Lisa Z.

When we believe, all things are possible!

ladybugnessa
on 3/10/09 7:44 am - Owings Mills, MD
not sure if this will work but this was me

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Nessa
Ticker is from Day of Surgery.. weight goal is personal preference as I've MET my doctor's goal

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HG/SW/CW/GW
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julie16
on 3/10/09 9:58 am - crofton, MD

Nessa You are a beautiful woman. I did alot of thinking today and I came to realize no matter what we have been through we have survived. Yea we might have issues but we are only human and everyone has issues. We have lived and we have learned and granted sometimes its been tough but we are still here..I know my parents tried to do the best but they had baggage too and I am sure it clouded their judgement and they made mistakes too. I have lived with them all my life and I know if my parents thought it would cause long lasting damage they would not have done the things they did. I just know I have tried to break the cycle and not commit the same mistakes....

 

                                                                                 Julie

Loser's visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.

Mom I hope you rest in Peace knowing that you were loved and will be missed. Keep love alive in your       heart as I know I will. You are now an           and I know you will be looking down on us from above......... I am OK.......
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