3 THINGS FOR TGIF!!

Julie -

PLEASE don't get me wrong, I sure didn't mean to hurt your feelings.  I actually feel horrible for her, because I've been there, as have so many of us.

She deserves a great big pat on the back for not having had sweets for 3 months (for me, that'd be a lifetime).  I have no room to point fingers, and I applaud you for suggesting a walk or a move, because that's exactly what I had in mind.

I agree, the dental work IS expensive, but a necessity for me.

Hugs,

Tia

Tia you did not hurt my feeling you just made me think. I know food is a crutch and we have been using it as one for a long time.. It is hard when you are tring to be a good friend to think outside the cookie box. I hope that you understand what I mean. If you wanted some s/f  chocolate I would do my best to get it for you. Thats just the kind of friend I am. Maybe I  should change my thinking since we all are trying to lose weight and be healthy...


                                                                                   Julie

Julie,

if you were my friend and my drug of choice was heroin and i aksed you to get me some would you?


I remember being really really mad at my now ex husband when i was home sick with a baby, pregnant with my second and i asked him to get me something sweet. I was thinking a 3 musketeers bar.  he got me a balloon.

he meant well.  it was just his delivery. 

Taking a teeny tiny break from putting out all of the fires in the lab today...wow...what a week!!

Today I'm grateful...

1.  For the upcoming warm weekend and it's FRIDAY!!!!!

2.  For the upcoming warm weekend and it's FRIDAY!!!!!

3.  For the upcoming warm weekend and it's FRIDAY!!!!!

Not sure if I'll get on here again before the end of the day, if not everyone have a GREAT WEEKEND!

FIRES?????  IN A LAB WITH MISSILES??????? 

You have a great weekend, too, sweetie!!!

LY,

T

Dear Nessa, No I would not get you heroin. I know now that maybe I shouldnt have got her the chocolate and I should have gotten fruit or something else. I am sure many have been in the same situation before. I just reacted and never stopped to think about it. I will be more careful if she does it again. Sometimes you just dont think and  thats what I did.Its  my mistake no one elses but mine. I appreciate your honesty and hope you have not and will not be  in this situation and make a wrong decision based on haste. I am not and will never be perfect and I know I can begin to change my thinking in case she does it again..

                                                                      Julie

ya know Julie,  I might have done the same thing so don't fret.  we live, we learn..

when i broke my ankle i was about 230 pounds and my then roommate knew i was going to need to lose weight for PT  i asked for snacks she gave me carrots.  I hated her. she put all the chocolate out of my reach and would give me 5 small tiny pieces a day.

she loved me enough to say NO to me....   

i don't know if i could do that to a friend stuck on a couch with a broken leg.... 

Nessa I was kinda in the same situation. She caught me off guard and it would have been really hard to say no. I dont want her to hate me and I dont want to lose her freindship over chocolate. I know you must have been so pis*** of at your rooomate. I learned but I hope next time I  can be strong and say NO....Have a great weekend..

                                                                 Julie

instead of NO say  "one small one" and something else.. and be aware it will make you want more and i won't get it...   ONE small thing of ANYTHING is NOT what made any of us fat.