finding love....finally

(deactivated member)
on 2/19/09 5:06 pm - MD
I am floating on air.  I am now in a relationship with a wondeful guy, Jim, who is by and far the most romantic most sweet, funny, and caring man I have ever encountered.  He actually adores me and says so quite often. He is so wonderful that I do not have any trouble believing we will stay together.There is a little inkling of me that says watch out and don't get attached. But seriously, I can't help but be attached since there is this cosmic force putting the two of us together.

We are very compatible and have so many things in common that the list would be a few pages long. It was an instant connection on every level.  Friday was our first actual date, when we met up at a HS alumni gathering and then went off on our own later that night. We talked all night long, closed down an all night diner, and stayed up to watch the sunrise on Valentine's day. He is a really sweet guy and says sweet romantic things as well as makes me laugh a lot, is intelligent, and can discuss actual feelings and thoughts unlike many. We had our 2nd date on Sunday. Our third date is tomorrow night and we are also going to a gathering of our friends on Saturday.  We have an amazing thing going and it feels really special. I literally feel high on life. The chemistry is amazing.

It's the happiest I've been in over 10-12 years. It seems so easy and natural with him I forget to be skeptical. I am really enjoying him and our seeming fate to find each other happening at such a good time in my life. Finally God answered my many prayers. I really didn't think I would ever find anyone who I would feel so much for,ever. I feel more for him already than anyone else I have ever been involved with.
Nicole T.
on 2/19/09 8:54 pm



I am so happy for you. it's ok to be positive and happy!!!!! i knew very quickly when i met my husband so it is possible. good luck sweetie.
(deactivated member)
on 2/19/09 8:54 pm - Middle River, MD
How wonderful, Jen!!!  I hope life brings you many wonderful things!!!!

Hugs,

Tia 
April B.
on 2/19/09 9:33 pm - Laurel, MD
RNY on 10/06/08 with
Jennifer!!

I am soooooooo happy for you! That is awesome (although I have to admit I am a tad bit jealous lol) No really I wish you the best. Its good to know there is hope and still some good men out there. I myself have just got recently back into the dating scene since I feel so much better about myself so wish me luck!! lol
~*April*~
THERESAMARIE
on 2/19/09 9:34 pm
Jen,

I am so happy for you!!  Thank you for sharing your happiness it so nice to hear something so positive!!  Enjoy and it sounds like you are off to really great start! Being a romantic at heart I love to hear all about someone finding love and happiness and wow staying up to watch the sunrise on valentines day how amazing is that!!!   I would love to hear more about things when you feel like sharing a question I have is   Did you go to high school with him? 

Be happy!!!!  Enjoy and savor every moment!


Hugs
Terri


Taking the Journey One Day at a Time!Terri

        
waitinggame
on 2/19/09 10:54 pm - Bowie, MD
After my first date with my now husband, I called my best friend and said, "I'm going to marry him." Sure enough, here we are 12 years later with two adorable kids and a wonderful life. I'll cross my fingers that all the cosmic forces stay aligned for you two. I'm so happy you are able to toss the what-ifs out the window and just enjoy the moment. That is what life is all about. Worrying about tomorrow doesn't change a thing and just serves to steal the joy of the day.

Enjoy it sweetie!

Denise

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VeloEllen
on 2/19/09 11:21 pm - Baltimore, MD
AHHH, to be young and in love.  Much better than being old and in love ;-)
My parents met on a Sunday and my father proposed on Thursday (he says he had to work Wednesday night or it would have been then).
Married 3 months later and stayed happy until he passed away 46 years later.
Gotta love it!
PEace
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Boxer Heather
on 2/20/09 1:10 am - Grasonville, MD
Congratulations Jen.  I was where you are a little over 4 years ago and remember the feeling well!!

Heather

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Debbie L.
on 2/20/09 1:29 am - Baltimore, MD
Jen - I read and re-read this post several times. it all is just so beautiful. Congratulations! I wish you a lifetime of continued joy together.
Angiebaby1209
on 2/20/09 1:47 am - Tampa, FL
Congrats - that's just awesome Jen - you so deserve happiness! 
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