Thank You

(deactivated member)
on 9/11/08 11:16 pm - Annapolis, MD
From the bottom of my heart I want to thank everyone for the prayers, thoughts, cards, texts, emails, etc. for myself and my family. Kelly has been great with keeping everyone updated. Losing my dad is the hardest thing I have had to deal with in my life so far and a lot of it is still not real to me. Having the support that I have been given has been wonderful and means so much to me. Thank you all for that. My dad was an amazing fighter and he taught me so much and showed me so many things and what really is important. I just want to share with everyone something my dad used to say all the time and part of my eulogy at his service on Wednesday.

"Cancer is so limited. It cannot cripple Love. It cannot shatter Hope. It cannot corrode Faith. It cannot destroy Peace. Cancer cannot kill Friendships. It cannot suppress Memories. It cannot silence Courage. It cannot invade the Soul. It cannot steal Eternal Life. It cannot conquer the Spirit."

We do not know where he got this from but these words were in my dad's heart. He spoke them often and because of his fighting spirit I will carry that with me forever. 

I'm not sure how often I'll be on the boards for awhile but you all are in my thoughts. Please know that.  

~Heather
(deactivated member)
on 9/11/08 11:22 pm, edited 9/11/08 11:22 pm - Middle River, MD
Heather -

For 2+ years, I was amazed by your Dad's strength, love of life and will to live.  I know how much you will miss him and know that he will always be with you.   Hugs to you and your whole family.

Anything you need, just call.

Love ya,

Tia
April B.
on 9/11/08 11:24 pm - Laurel, MD
RNY on 10/06/08 with
Awe...honey it was SO GOOD to see you last night!! You and your family contiue to be in my thoughts and prayers!! You know I am always here and can call me WHENEVER for WHATEVER.
~*April*~
(deactivated member)
on 9/11/08 11:35 pm - Hagerstown, MD
Heather,

You and your family are always in my thoughts.  If there's anything I can do for you, please let me know.

*HUGE BEAR HUGS*

Aaron
Debbie L.
on 9/12/08 12:05 am - Baltimore, MD
Heather,

You and your family continue to be in my thoughts. My Dad was my emotional center and I miss him to this day. It has been over 12 years. But my comfort is that I actually feel him with me all the time. Somehow, I feel your Dad will remain with you too. If you need anything, please let me know. It can be anything as serious or as silly as you need.

Debbie
VeloEllen
on 9/12/08 1:05 am, edited 9/12/08 1:05 am - Baltimore, MD

Heather, we don't know each other except from reading posts but I certainly thought about you.  I lost my dad in 1999 - and still miss him.  He also died of cancer - he was 70.  I am just SO SAD he never met my son but we always tell Ethan he would have been Grandpa Harveys' favorite.

Peace

E

grammom
on 9/12/08 1:15 am - Baltimore, MD
you take some time for yourself honey and heal its healthy for you, your dad was a fighter and a good man it seems , god bless you and your family


 

    
Jen L.
on 9/12/08 2:18 am - Frederick, MD
Hey Honey!!!!

Miss you!!! Your dad had an amazing spirit I could tell every time you mentioned him!

Love you
Jen
Jilly Durbin
on 9/12/08 4:37 am - Pasadena, MD
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Heather}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Stay strong sweetheart.

Re: "Cancer is so limited. It cannot cripple Love. It cannot shatter Hope. It cannot corrode Faith. It cannot destroy Peace. Cancer cannot kill Friendships. It cannot suppress Memories. It cannot silence Courage. It cannot invade the Soul. It cannot steal Eternal Life. It cannot conquer the Spirit."

I LOVE THAT! That is something I would like to pass along to others if its okay?  Im here if you need anything!!! ~Jilly~
Cira S.
on 9/12/08 8:47 am - Charles Town , WV
Heather,

My heart goes out to you and your family. Take your time to heal and mourn.
My deepest and sincerest sympathy.

Your father's words brought tears to me. Thank you for sharing.

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.

Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
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