Debate 2

Jen L.
on 8/28/08 3:42 am - Frederick, MD

I know, more questions about love....LOL

How do you know when it is love and just not a deep like, and when in love should it be comfortable or should there be some anxiety to keep you on your toes????

(deactivated member)
on 8/28/08 3:47 am - Hagerstown, MD

RNY on 05/08/08

I think I don't know really LOL I have strong feelings for someone I'm physically attracted to but I wouldn't call that love......more like lust. I've never found anyone that I have been physically, emotionally, spiritually attracted to.

Heather M.
on 8/28/08 5:07 am - Rosedale, MD

Revision on 06/11/09

Jen, I think it's the old answer...you just KNOW when it's right. And define the anxiety part. I think a positive nervousness is a good thing, but an overhanging feeling of something not being 100% right is telling you it's not.

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ItsMeRen
on 8/28/08 5:40 am - Baltimore, MD

RNY on 10/07/08

Love... I guess the answer for everyone is different, however, for the first time in my life, I have someone who listens to me when I talk, laughs with me and I with him, and makes me smile when I think of him.

So all in all... My best answer is this: When you can truly see yourself growing old AND being old with that person, and it brings a smile to your face... you know it's right, and you know it's love. Of course there is the important issue of him/her feeling the same way.

Good luck & Good love!
Ren

(deactivated member)
on 8/29/08 12:05 am - MD

DS on 10/02/08

when you don't have any doubts in your mind. When you don't have to even ask a question like this. No, I do not think there should be any fear of losing the person or anxiety/insecurity "staying on your toes".