Is WLS the EASY way out???

Jilly Durbin
on 8/13/08 11:05 am - Pasadena, MD

I, like a lot of you, have had people say that to me too. That is people who don't have a clue what they are talking about! Its people who have never a day in their life struggled with weight issues. It angers me that people can assume that people that lost weight on their own EARNED IT but not those who have had surgery. Ugh! Anyway I found this on the web a bit ago and wanted to share it:

The Top Ten Reasons why Weight Loss Surgery is NOT “the easy way out”

By Glenn Goldberg

10. It's very expensive. Many health insurance companies don't pay for the surgery, and even when they do, co-payments and other costs add up quickly. Also, it can become very costly to constantly replenish wardrobes as the weight comes off.

9. Recovery can be very painful. Besides the pain from the surgery wound, patients may experience nausea or severe gastric distress. Patients with sleep apnea may become sleep-deprived, with all of the associated adverse affects, when they must discontinue use of their CPAP machines to avoid disturbing the staples creating their tiny new stomach pouch.

8. Recuperation can take a long time. Patients may be “out of commission” and absent from work for a prolonged period of recovery time. In some cases, patients may not be able to return to work or normal pursuits for up to 10 – 12 weeks.

7. It's hard work and a major time commitment. For optimal results, patients should engage in aerobic exercise for up to an hour daily. For bodies unaccustomed to vigorous exercise, this can be very hard. It's also a real challenge for WLS patients to learn all they must about nutrition so they can assure that their food and vitamins are sustaining their body. Finally, it can be exhausting to consciously, carefully and painstakingly chew every bit of food that enters your mouth.

6. Vomiting isn't fun. Nor is diarrhea. It may take patients many months (and frequent episodes of vomiting or diarrhea) to identify incompatible foods and to learn the practical limits of their newly reduced stomachs or digestive systems.

5. It takes extraordinary courage to consciously limit food choices for the rest of your life (and potentially limit social opportunities built around meals). For many patients, life after WLS means treating food as a fuel, not as a source of drama, excitement, comfort or a central life focus: i.e. eating to live rather than living to eat. While some procedures may be reversible, for most patients WLS is a lifetime commitment, requiring a lifetime of major lifestyle changes.

4. Weight loss surgery can be dangerous. As many as .5% of surgery patients may die from the procedure, and up to 5% may experience debilitating medical complications (especially if they listen to their peers' advice more carefully than their doctor's.)

3. It takes great bravery and strength to deflect other people's judgments and society's myths about obesity. Fat people are often blamed and shamed by family and friends with simplistic advice, unrealistic solutions, and uninformed prejudices. Whether it's for genetic or metabolic reasons, diet and exercise, willpower and discipline have never, by themselves, been enough. Our appetite regulators simply don't work. Without WLS, we don't know when we're full!

2. What gives anyone the right to judge which path is right for another? Is a person who runs a 10K taking a “better” or “tougher” route to wellness than the person who walks vigorously every day? Is working with weights better than water aerobics? Different strokes for different folks. Each of us finds our own right way, and how dare others judge our path to health and longevity! By their reckoning, the most courageous thing would be for us to suck it up and die young.

1. For many morbidly obese people, WLS may be the ONLY realistic alternative for achieving a long, healthy life. The newest research provides irrefutable evidence that body weight is largely a function of genes — just like height or a family propensity for cancer. These genes help regulate appetite and metabolism. People prone to obesity seem to gain excessive weight easily, while finding it difficult or impossible to lose it. That's why diets almost always fail and why WLS is currently the only viable weight loss option for many morbidly obese people, according to endocrinologist David *******s of the Veterans Affairs Puget Sound Health Care System. Most people can lose no more than 5-10% off their "natural" body weight by exercising and eating wisely. Decades of diet studies show that more than 90% of people who lose weight by dieting gain it all back within 5 years. "There are exceptions, but when you are speaking of general rules, the only people who are able to lose more than 10 percent of their body weight and keep it off are people who have had gastric-bypass or other bariatric surgery," *******s notes.


Glenn

Note: Glenn died suddenly from a heart attack about 3 years after his Weight Loss surgery.  He had had a pacemaker inserted about 3 months before his death and his autopsy showed advanced stage 4 leukemia.
 

 

 

(deactivated member)
on 8/13/08 11:46 am - Crofton, MD
Jilly

Thanks for sharing this. I think this should be mailed to every person in the world so they all know it is not the easy way out. :)
Jilly Durbin
on 8/13/08 12:48 pm - Pasadena, MD
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!! There are so many people out there who are just ignorant to the topic!! I had a friend say to me "So what surgery are you getting, I heard you were having surgery?" and when I told her she looked at me and said "That is so stupid, why cant you just join Jenny Craig or something?" OMG I was so upset. She is like 99 pounds and 30 years old! Some people just dont get it!!!

Thanks for reading it honey.
(deactivated member)
on 8/15/08 8:21 pm - MD
grrr, that was such an ignorant remark!  You can't even bother to explain this to her because she cannot relate.
Jilly Durbin
on 8/16/08 12:42 am - Pasadena, MD
RIGHT!!! I am still a bit hurt by that comment. I think she just doesnt know enough about it. Like we all just magically shed the pounds on Jenny Craig and its off for life. UGHHHH! LOL
docsal80
on 8/13/08 11:59 am
 Is WLS the easy way out?  No, it is the hard way out but for us, the ONLY way out.
"No one can make you feel inferior without your permission." - Eleanor Roosevelt
  

REVISED GOAL:  125 lbs.

Jilly Durbin
on 8/13/08 12:50 pm - Pasadena, MD
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
(deactivated member)
on 8/13/08 7:56 pm - FL
Jill
WOW!  That is awesome!  Glad I took the high road.  It would be great if we could walk in others shoes but God did not tend it that way.  This is awesome, I am going to e-mail this to everyone I know.
Hugs Kristen


Note: Jill I want to share this on another board.
Jilly Durbin
on 8/13/08 9:20 pm - Pasadena, MD
Morning Kristen Please feel free to pass that along to whomever because I think people need to see the truth. A majority of people out there think WLS is for those too lazy to go to the gym or walk or whatever. That makes me mad. I am at the gym atleast 3 times a week and I walk ALL THE TIME. So people that dont know anything about WLS have big misconceptions about it entirely.
And absolutley share it on another board, the more people to read it the better.
Have a great day!!!
(deactivated member)
on 8/13/08 9:23 pm - FL
Jill
What gym do you go to?
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