ENOUGH, PLEASE!!! I'M SORRY!!!

(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 10:44 pm - Middle River, MD

Okay, this drama has got to stop.

I will be the first to apologize.  I'm sorry for any drama that I may have caused, which may have caused me to lose friends who have been with me through thick and thin (yeah, that's a joke).

I will confess to being part of a clique, for lack of a better term, but what I actually consider it to be is a "circle of trust," people who know me, care me, and would lay down and die for me, and I for them.  But honestly, it wasn't meant to exclude anyone, and the beauty of a circle is that it's unending, it can always be increased, and should, as we grow as people.

I am REALLY sorry for any offensive posts I've made.  I'm a single girl, yes, looking, not being a predator for a decent guy, which, if you ask any single girl, is all ANY of us want.  I think that's why Sex & the City rang true for so many of us - shoes notwithstanding!!!

Yes, there are people on here I don't like, and that's actually pretty stupid.  As Kristen stated, it's the internet, a lot of you don't know me off the boards, but as far as me being fake and fluff, nah, with me, pretty much what you see is what you get.  I AM outspoken - hell, I've been called a ***** a fat ***** mouthy, opinionated, assertive, etc.  And I'm not always proud to say, that's often true, but I also KNOW that I'm loving, caring and supportive - both of my REAL family and my OH family.  Anyone who knows of my relationship with my sweet KB knows that to be the truth.

So that's it folks, I'll go away if I see that's what people want, but I don't think it is and truly hope that's not the case.  I've gotten a lot of laughs and hopefully provided some to you all, too.

Remember, we all came together for one reason - TO FIND MEN!!!  No, seriously, because no one understands us like us, right?

PEACE - PLEASE, FOR OUR MENTAL HEALTHS - I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!!!!  And we need to encourage people to stay, not scare them away.  I've seen drama on the other boards (the Sex Board).  Yes, OMG, I LURK there - I'm so sexually naive that I COULDN'T post on some of them, and am a prude to the degree that I WOULDN't post there.  But I do promise to try to stop judging people for what they do.  I am, after all, only human.

Okay, all together, join hands as we start swaying and singing......

Thanks for letting me get this off my ever-deflating chest!!!!

Tia

(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 11:01 pm, edited 7/29/08 11:05 pm - FL
You have not lost me! Hugs Kristen

You will learn that I am not a judgemental person, I love everyone!  It takes a lot to damage me!
Sorry of anything that I have said! LOVE YOU ALL!

Oh and I am the sex ***** that hangs out on the Sex Board but it is cause I feel good about myself and you all are very welcome to come join me anytime.  Hell come look at my pics on Thursday night for LF! 

Happiness Kristen
(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 11:06 pm - Hagerstown, MD
ok....I can feel the love here now!!!!! Love you blondie
(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 11:07 pm, edited 7/29/08 11:31 pm - FL
LOVE YOU Baldie!
(deactivated member)
on 7/29/08 11:09 pm - Hagerstown, MD
LMAO!!!!!
ms1poopie
on 7/29/08 11:20 pm - Capitol Heights, MD
Hey Tia!  Well, I'm not down with any cliques and I have surely missed whatever drama had begun, but you seem like such a genuine person that I hope you don't leave the board.  I've yet to meet you, but I do look forward to it eventually.  Hopefully, whoever was offended by whatever happened, will accept your heartfelt apology and move on.
Weight at Surgery (7/6/07) - 410
Weight at Start of Pregnancy (3/08) - 268
Current Weight - 270


The new love of my life!
Marcus Taylor, born 1/13/09
(deactivated member)
on 7/30/08 3:52 pm - MD
Hijack!!

Hey there MsPoopie!  Where have you been hiding?  How are things going?  I miss your face here. 
ms1poopie
on 7/31/08 11:57 pm - Capitol Heights, MD
Hey Jen!!  I haven't been around as much.  Super busy at work and staying tired with this little bundle on board.  How've things been for you? I see you have a date now!  Woohoo!  That's wonderful!   It'll be here before you know it.
Weight at Surgery (7/6/07) - 410
Weight at Start of Pregnancy (3/08) - 268
Current Weight - 270


The new love of my life!
Marcus Taylor, born 1/13/09
Cira S.
on 7/29/08 11:36 pm - Charles Town , WV
Tia,

You have been the most kindest and geniune person from the very first day I met you. I know you will not be going anywhere because you are an integral part of this forum. You have always given support unconditionally.

I hope everyone of us puts everything in the back burner and move because I sure don't have the time for all the drama.

Enough said!

Have a great day sweetie and don't let anything that was said get you down. 

(((((((hugs)))))))

Cira

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.

Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
100Cira-1.jpg picture by negra266

Darla P.
on 7/29/08 11:42 pm - Timonium, MD

Agreed:  the drama does need to stop;

I for one know that I came here for support- we all do ; and what I found is just that.
We are like a family -   disfunctional at times but a family all the same.

Don't even think about going anywhere because you know I will use Dad's Garmin
and track you down just like we will Cira if she goes anywhere.

I have made so many friends on here that the thought of losing any of you just
breaks my heart. 

As part of the  "circle of trust" ( at least I hope I am considered part of it)
I know what a caring person; you have shown me and others on here
you are time after time.

 

As far as the deflating chest -  Tia we all know about that -- Its one of the

negative parts of wls I guess -- just wish everything else would deflate as fast.

Love you sweetie

   
 
Darla     -

  
 


 
 

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