How offended should I be??

LOL!  Thanks.

Are you kidding me???? How can people be so stupid??? I have never met you in person but from your pics you look amazing! Where people get off saying stuff like that is just beyond me. Whether she was 'joking' or not it should have just never been said. Just ingore her.

Thanks.  I think maybe I will have to take it all with a grain of salt.

That would prob be best. Anyone like that isn't worth the effort in feeling bad over. You look amazing, you have done so great!!!! That is what you need to remember....nothing else.

some people can be so ignorant, I would ignore her!

I am going to be very wary around her.

And people wonder why there is violence in the workplace. 


I think I would have smacked the crap out of her for that stupid comment.  Kudos to you for not killing her.

That said, you look fabulous.   Don't pay her any mind.






Tracey

Thank you.  We have always had a good relationship but now??

Although I think you look terrific, I was wondering if you have ever expressed any dissatifcations with any parts of your body as you have lost weight. Have you ever said anything in the past to indicate that you wish certain body parts had gone back differently than they did? I do think this person's comments were highly insulting. At the same time, I wonder if she thoguht she was being supportive in a totally inefficient, inept way.

I say this only because you mention that you have had a good relationship with this person before now. And I know I have said things like this about myself as I progress on this journey. We are often quite hard on ourselves. Yes, I know that these were the risks and I definitely do not regret the path I have taken.

If it is not possible that this was her motive, then I agree, she is totally off her rocker!

Nope, the only thing I have ever complained about has been my stomach.  Mind you I did not expect to have the belly of a 21 year old after I lost my weight.  So my complaints are just that, complaints.