mini debate - for the ladies
ok gals! given today's big debate, here's my mini-debate. What kind of guy do you think would be perfect for you? What really turns your crank and want to fall into the throws of matrimony?
For me, he's gotta be a little like me. A nerd and a gamer and willing to explore the wild side just a little. Someone *****spects my space and my need to be in it ALONE at times. Not touchy-feely but when I need touchy feely he's not averse to it. As far as looks go, I don't care as long as he has some sort of facial hair and a nice smile.
c'mon ladies.....when else are you going to have a guy initiate "girl talk"? LOL
Aaron, my luv! Don't you think if I KNEW what was perfect for me that I'd keep doing all this test driving? This weekend, as I watched Happy the puppy vigorously shake her head from side to side with a chew toy in her mouth, I thought, "Yep, and THAT'S what a chew toy's good for!!!" LOL!!!
Seriously, I have no criteria when it comes to looks, although I have made it known that I love bald guys and goatees - but then again, guys with hair on their heads and no facial hair do it for me, too!!! I've dated heavy, thin, short, tall, attractive, not so - beauty really IS in the eye of the beholder. I find that I'm more attracted to a man's intellect than I am to his physical traits - give me a man who can keep up with my wit, who has a strong sense of family, a good sense of humor, is kind, thoughtful, likes movies, music (I AM an 80's girl), books, etc., and there ya go! My perfect man! It helps if he's breathing, too! LOL!!! Not to say that I'm a prude, far from it, so throw in a hot kisser and I AM SO THERE!!!!
Thanks, now I gotta go shower!!! LOL!
Tia
mmmmm....I love chew toys...especially if they are HOT! you know I've been told that I am the best kisser this side of the mississippi :) I think every girl's perfect man is a gay one LOL
Uhhhhh, I would beg to differ......................
And don't use that "M" word with me!!! 
OMG! You are awesome!!! What a great thread to start!!!! LOL
HMMMMMM for me on the looks side I prefer tall with darker hair, nice eyes and smile. Now that I am older I have found that I like men from about 38 to 45 at the oldest. They have to have a great sense of humor, like to laugh but still have a serious side to them at times as I do too. Someone who can be out and about and be comfortable in jeans but just as much so in a suit if it is called for. Someone who doesn't mind PDA but not in a porn kind of way....there is a line. 
Communication skills are a must but we both need to have our own time and space apart from each other. Someone who has their own friends and life, I have mine then we have ours together. HMMMMMM DAMN that's a tall order
.....maybe that's my problem.....should I just change it to alive and breathing??????? LOL OH! One more thing...someone who understands WLS and everything it entails....someone who does not have a lifestyle where food is their center. Someone who is active and likes to do things other than go out to eat. HMM More than one thing.....yep....asking too much! LOL
