GREAT DEBATE-Relationships

I agree!!!! just say it...I am TOOOOOO old for the game

LOL here's the kicker though Jen....WE are too old for the game but for some reason THEY are not too old to play the damn game. Even when they say they don't play games.....that's a game in itsself. Hell, and even better is that the majority of the time they really don't know what they really want. UGH!

sometimes guys don't even get it even when hit by a clue x 4.  Even in my world some of them are very dense.  There's even things i have noticed here that I don't know why you ladies put up with it.  Of course this is just my abstract point of view in a way.  Sometimes it just give me the shivers!

How about if we hit them with a 2X4???? LOL Nah, I'm not violent but they are so frustrating!!!! Funny thing is they say the same about us....who wins? I think...and this is just coming from me......that the reason that we sometimes put up with bad behavior has to do with the fear of winding up alone. When I was fat I could hide behind my fat and use that as an excuse for a failed relationship along with my low self-esteem it just compounded why I put up with some bad stuff. NOW the problem is when someone is not interested or a relationship fails I DON'T have my fat to hide behind anymore....then I have to really find out what the real issues are/were.....etc. I thought that dating as a smaller person would be easier.....it's not. It is much harder.

for the most part, I'm really happy being alone.  Of course I am starting to develop that crotchety old man mentality LOL  I don't understand why people have to play games.  Why not just be yourself and then MAYBE you'll be approachable.

When I'm myself I'm screwed and when I'm not myself I'm screwed too.....and NEVER in the good way! LOL I do fine by myself, always have and let me be 100% honest.....all my previous relationships were BAD, except the last one.....lemme spell it out B A D. The last one.....cir****tances changed so I had to make a decision. It breaks my heart but such is life. There were no games....just bad timing. LOL Story of my life, if it's not one thing, it's something else. BTW with all us women here in the MD room you will never be a crotchety old man!!!!! LOL

trying to google "How to Clone Good Men" for you so i can send randy off in a postage paid envelope and clone him for you

Had to make you laugh and SMILE

Oh if it were only that easy!!!! LOL Thanks for trying though! I just have to keep thinking PORK PORK PORK instead of BALK BALK BALK!!!!!!

I think the term "missing the boat" is the theme of my life.  I find that guys are interested in me AFTER they have partnered up with someone else.  UGH!  I hate that!

so you're going to turn me into a cat lady?

LMAO I always tell people that I am going to wind up knitting booties and blankets for all my friends kids and I'll have 10 cats and will be eating tuna fish straight out of the can!!!!! THAT is going to be my story! LOL Yeah, I always have the ones that come back after they have dumped me for someone else then want a chance..UUUMMMM NOT happening! It's either that or just plain bad timing. *sigh* WHEN will it change???