THE GREAT DEBATE #2

I guess I will jump in head first! I work in OBGYN so with that being said, I have seen EVERY STD you could ever want to see. 20 years ago you did not have sex until you fell in love with someone.  Today thing are a little for casual.  One night stands are more on the raise these day. As for me I plead the 5th!

i have been having sex with the same man for 17 years so i probably don't have a lot to offer this thread.  iirc, we met in november and didn't actually have sex until either january or february.  i did have sex on the first date once with a guy i dated right after my divorce from my first husband.  however, that entire "courtship" was very sexually charged and we both knew it was going to happen.  we dated for about six months and it was all about that.  then i met my current husband and bowed out gracefully on the other guy.