OT: My ex husband has pissed me off yet again.....(kinda long)
I would love to post something happy for today's "3 things" but it has just been another one of those days for me...I am at my witts end...
Ok my ex husband has screwed me again!!!!! My youngest son called me last night just to talk and say hi and after I talk to him and my daughter, my daughter tells me that my other son can't talk on the phone because he got in trouble. I get my ex husband on the phone and was told that my son did something he shouldn't have (a typical 12 yr old) and his phone priviledge got taken away again and that he will not be coming up here with me for the 2 weeks like we planned. WTF!!!!!! I haven't seen my kids in a year because I can not drop everything and dig deep into our dusty pockets and come up with the money to drive down to NC to see them. Last time I saw them was July of 07 and that was for a day. Origionally we wanted all the kids to come but my daughter is very into her color guard with school and is starting practice during that time and my youngest son didn't do well in school and I was told he couldn't come because he needed to be there to do work to get himself caught up and ready for sept. Fine....So that left my other son. I can understand him getting in trouble and grounded but to keep me from being able to spend the only time I can get there to get him is just not right. My ex is very vindictive and will do what ever he can to **** me off and upset me. He says he isn't , but he is. The words out of his mouth last night were "well maybe when the kids have an extended weekend again to come down and see if maybe we can change going down there to visit to another weekend"....NO WE CAN'T!!!!! My fiance works construction and can not just take off when ever he feels. We barely are making the bill payments we need to (house phone should be cut off this weekend) and can not just up and go where ever and when ever we want. I am so stressed, upset, pissed.......I just don't know how to handle all of this. I know it will only be another day or so before I break down and start crying again. I am the type that keeps thinking about things till I just lose it. We are still going down to NC July 19th and coming home the next day but I won't get to spend any quality time with my kids. We have to take our dog with us because we couldn't afford to board her for a couple days. (at least we found a pet friendly hotel). The plans were to go down saturday spend a couple hours with all the kids sat night and leave sunday with my one son and come back here to MD. Now the only time we will have to spend with the kids is that sunday and will have the dog with us. we can't go anywhere and lock the dog in the car.....what the hell am i supposed to do????? I need to take his ass to court and get the visitation papers redone but can't afford an attorney and would have to go through NC to do so. Legal aid is bull **** I contact maryland and they tell me to contact north carolina. i contact NC and they say they need a referral from MD. I tell MD this and they don't do **** Its been a run around for years. NO ONE WILL HELP ME!!!!! So now between the stress of not seeing my kids and my weight being at a stall for 2 weeks, i am STRESSED!!!!!!
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