Guys I need some help

Barb - I would say def give the notice to the bank. My Grandfather told me NEVER burn bridges you dont have to! You never know what type of situation you will end up in and will need to go back to that job. As far as the date, I say wait untill you feel comfortable telling him. It's maybe something you wouldnt wanna do immediately until you meet in person and get better aquainted

That seems to be the bigger vote on here lol ~~The job Yeah I just wasnt sure how it will appear in his eyes.  I mean I already lost almost 25 pounds since he seen me last I dunno if that will be apparent but we will see how it goes.  Maybe nothing will happen maybe something will. 

Even if he does notice the physical chance he most likely won't say anything. A decent guy won't. It would be one thing if you had known him a  long time as a friend and then he saw you then he might say something. I wouldn't worry about it :-) BTW don't worry about how it will appear in his eyes, your eyes are the only ones that really matter! :-)    (Boy...I need to take my own advice!!! LOL) It is true, the head is the last thing to catch up with your weight loss! LOL