Yes...it was a compliment!!!

Smilesy
on 2/3/08 9:17 pm - Westminster, MD
I just went to join a co worker for a quick coffee in the cafeteria.  I walked around the corner, and he said "Wow, you don't even resemble yourself...you look like a normal person" (and very quickly siad "please take that the right way")  I never thought I'd be so excited to be called 'normal'! :)
mo21012
on 2/3/08 10:19 pm - Anne Arundel County, MD
That was absolutely a compliment!   As I get farther and farther out (coming up on 4 years), there are people who are coming into my life that never knew the 'old' me but I still get comments from those who knew me 'when'. I bet you look fabulous. Hugs, Mo

Comparison is the thief of joy!

If we spend our time comparing our life/weight loss/body to others, we totally miss what WE have accomplished.   Keep in mind how far you have come and what you can do now that you couldn't do weeks/months/years ago.   I hate the expression " It's all good", but in this case it fits!   Wherever you are in your journey  ... It's ALL good!!!

itsjust4me
on 2/3/08 11:18 pm - MD
That is so awesome!!  Who knew what a difference a year can make. I know what you mean.  I was leaving work today and my boss who I see pretty infrequently saw me as I was leaving and said "Oh my God Kim, you look great!  You look so thin."  THIN!!  WHAT! Never in a million years would I think that word would apply to me.  But I figured it out today in 7 lbs I will be a NORMAL weight and BMI. It is so nice to be able to share things like this with others who understand.
Kim


  




 
Cira S.
on 2/3/08 11:58 pm - Charles Town , WV
It's a great compliment. Soometimes I have trouble accepting them because they come off really weird to me. For example everytime my brother calls me on the phone she says hey skinny!!  I get tired of hearing it cause I am no where skinny and I still have to have this baby and reach my goal.  But one day I was a bit moody and he called me skinny and I told him so now you call me skinny all the time I wonder why before you didn't say hey fatty everytime we talked. He was a bit  a taken back by my comment but I couldn't help it. lol I need to learn to understand these off the wall compliments i guess.  

I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.

Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
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Ted K.
on 2/5/08 12:54 am - Westminster, MD
I've only known you since September - but I wouldn't call you "normal".    Oh - wait a minute - he meant how you look.   Yea, ok, I can see that.
A flute with no holes is not a flute, a donut with no hole is a danish.
Smilesy
on 2/5/08 2:55 am - Westminster, MD
Hey....some of us take great pride in NOT being normal! LOL :)  Thanks for the comments! It surely does feel good!
(deactivated member)
on 2/11/08 5:48 am - Leonardtown, MD
Nice zing by Ted!!   "Normal" is such a subjective term.  --Eric
Smilesy
on 2/11/08 6:44 pm - Westminster, MD
It's all relative....:)
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