New Here and lots of questions regarding approval!
Comparison is the thief of joy!
If we spend our time comparing our life/weight loss/body to others, we totally miss what WE have accomplished. Keep in mind how far you have come and what you can do now that you couldn't do weeks/months/years ago. I hate the expression " It's all good", but in this case it fits! Wherever you are in your journey ... It's ALL good!!!
I suggest that you check the BCBS web site and see if they have a list of participating surgeons. Then go thru the list on THIS site for bariatric surgeons in Maryland. You will most likely find some matches. It seems that most of the bariatric surgeons now have web sites where you can get information about their information sessions, seminars, and support groups. I had my surgery at Sinai with Dr. Li. ( http://www.lifebridgehealth.org/sinaibody.cfm?id=1361 ) I know that at that time they were BCBS participants. I do not know if they still are. I have heard wonderful things about all of the other doctors mentioned by other posters. My only concern for you is that getting yourself from Rockville to Baltimore for support group meetings might be difficult. I had to drop my attendance at ours because I simply cannot get from my job in Largo to Baltimore in time. Have you considered a DC area doctor?