Lap band v. RNY
I am who I am and accept my feelings wholeheartedly.
Those that mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.
Cira 249/144.0 current/goal 154/ 5'3" 10 lbs below my Dr's goal
I am under 300 even now. My highest weight ever was 315, which I was for about 10 years, and I am currently 293. I've been holding under 300 for over six years now.
I am definitely a praying person. It was prayer that got me to this point. Last March, I lost an uncle to diabetes complications. He was only 64 but weighed over 400 lbs (even at 6'6" that was way too much). Then in August, I lost my dad. He was 83, 140 lbs and otherwise very healthy, but fell and hit his head. He survived brain surgery twice, but died of a hospital infection. Both these losses have had a huge impact on me. Uncle Jim's death made me see just how bad Type 2 could get. Dad's loss made me realize that I owed it to my young daughter, who is only 5, to try to be here as long as possible so that she wouldn't feel the pain of losing a parent at a young age. She already lost her first parents, who were unable to care for her and left her at a police station in southern China. God really impressed upon me that I had to do something NOW and surgery wasn't the lazy man's way out (as I had long believed). Sorry to ramble so much. I'll read more of Dr. S's website and see if I can get DH reading. DH works for Hopkins, so using a Hopkins doctor was the sine qua non. Edie
Edie, you owe it to yourself to investigate all alternatives. Have you look at Dr. S's website. It is extremely informative and gives you all the information and links you need to decide between Lap band, RNY or DS. My husband was very concerned too because I have chosen to have the DS. What I did was sit him down in front of the computer with me and let him see all the research that has been done. Good luck. Jo