Thank you

I just wanted to express thanks to everyone. My 'blue period' was difficult for me but with the words and thoughts they helped me to feel better and more like myself. I want everyone to know that they are in my thoughts and prayers during this Christmas season and through the year. I had a great weekend and actually went out with someone whom I hadn't seen in 15 years. It was nice to re-connect and get out and about. This group of people here in the Maryland room have shown me that no matter what, I am not alone. I do have a wonderful circle and I feel blessed to have it. You are all beautiful, wonderful, caring people and I feel lucky and fortunate to know you all. To the friends I have met and to the ones I have yet to meet, thank you from the bottom of my heart! ~Heather

Hey Heather - I was in a NYC-induced fog on Friday when I read your post, and didn't feel awake enough to respond coherently!!! I, like so many others, can sympathize with your "blues." You're right, it is so hard to be the only single one left in your group. In my case, I was married very young, when I was 21, and divorced when I was 24, so when I was getting divorced, a lot of my friends were getting married. I always hoped I'd remarry, but knew my weight was a factor. Unfortunately, a lot of people, men and women, can't see past fat. They can see past ugly, but not fat. Go figure. So, now I'm still alone, with no prospects on the horizon, but actually, sometimes it's okay. When I see my parents, whom I adore, but lovingly refer to as the Fighting Chiahuahas, it does my heart good to be single!!! Not really, but you know what I mean. Don't worry, I'm still hoping there's somebody out there for all of us! Or at least one with a couple of friends!!! Anyway, I'm glad that you're feeling better. And please allow me to reiterate what everyone else said - you are beautiful, inside and out, and I know that your Gran is smiling down on you, so proud of all you've accomplished!!! Take care, Tia

Good Morning Heather- That is what we are here for. To support eachother in the wow moments and the " blue's" moments. Glad you are doing better this week and cant wait till sunday. I have to remember to bring my camera. (Note to self). Well have a great day and rest of te week and Don't worry about bringing anything on the 21st. It's your birthday and I will take care of it. You can get it next time. Take Care Kelly

Thanks also. I have worked through my blue period also. I gave myself a me day and slept all day yesterday so I felt stronger and more able to face the world. Aime