Mr340
I noticed that Mr340 is now listed as deactivated member. Anyone know what's up or how he's doing?
i think that he did nt like what i was saying.I only offered my personal advice as i do with everyone on here.those of us who posted replies to his post were concerned about how fast he was moving in to the new phases and asked him to use caution as we were concerned with his health and didnt want him to have complications.
You were just being concerned Sondra. I had some concerns too as what he was doing isn't what the bariatric team told me to follow. Let's all hope he is alright and will come back. Any word on Ottogun?
I'll stand by what I said . I deleted my last comment in response to Karen because she deleted hers and mine didn't make sense in context . Support isn't just standing by watching people make questionable choices. We were all concerns and I don't think anything anyone said was bad.
For all we know , he might have other reasons for deactivating ( privacy comes to mind for a lot of us) I hope he reconsiders and comes back
I read and replied in that thread and I don't think anything was said or suggested that was out of line. We are all on the same page here and nobody wants to tread on feelings but sometimes we just have to speak up and question things that don't seem to be quite right. I hope he deactivated due to the wish for privacy as opposed to anything that was said on here. All remarks here are made with care and concern and not with any malicious intent. My old mammy used to say "if there was no offense intended, there should be none taken"
I really hope he's okay and comes back.
imho - I believe he deleted his account after reading the thoughts and concerns of others. I believe in following what the clinic's guidelines and perhaps her took the comments out of concern personally. I think (key word is think) that if you are posting on a open forum, and you are not following guidelines that yes us people will be concerned... Some people need sugar coating some don't... I like a little bit of sugar myself but I also know that what I post on here can be misunderstood and to expect many different opinions..