Relationships and the meeting at the vic

I have been debating whether or not to attend this one. Anyone else having problems in their relationship since WLS? My husband couldn't handle the fact that I wanted to do something more than sit on the couch or go out to eat. It took 1 year and 11 months before he pushed me to the point of craziness. I have to admit, the longer he is gone the better I feel. Am I the only one out here on this forum that it has it  happen to?

Who is going on the 6th?  I am hoping to make it.

Hi Michelle,

I'm going on the 6th but its my first meeting ever.  Sounds like you are making positive changes in your life!

Good on you for wanting to go out and do more!  I am hoping I feel confident enough to want to be in the public and not praying for the side walk to swallow me whole!  When I look in the mirror I only see from the eyes up.  I'm hoping like you I too will want to go out and have fun!

I'm planning on being there! Tons of my relationships have changed, or I changed or something. I would like to learn more about this phenomenon. So far, I am not a fan. Come and then we can go grab a coffee or tea after

I'd love to meet up for coffee

I would love to meet for coffee after; because yes lots of relationships have changed; some I am glad for others I am not sure.

I'm going to the meeting and probably for coffee after.  I'm doing okay with my relationships so far but I would like to learn about warning signs and possibly understand how people react to news of WLS.  I haven't told everyone but I have told family and those I work closest with.

i am not attending this one but would have loved too.amera is going to email me any papers that are handed out.i really wanted toattend this one but am in florida and only come back the thursday after.