Grrrrrr

So I have been VERY selective about who I have told about my surgery.  Before my surgery, it was just my sister in law and her husband and I waited until post op to tell my parents. 

My sister in law lives across the street from me and has some friends over tonight... one of them came over to say hi, and see how I was feeling after my surgery and when I should start losing weight and how long will I be off work. . so .. she's been telling all her judgemental friends. 

SO mad!
 

im so sorry i know how selective some of us are about who knows .. i am the same way and would feel as betrayed as im sure you do , try not to let it bother you , and its ok to tell people they crossed the line and you would rather it was kept more personal .
Sending positive hugs your way .

Awe, I am sorry she did that.  I know I tried to keep it to myself to but my niece is coming with so I ended up having to tell my family.  To which it became the topic of much discussion.  I try not to let it bother me. Take care and maybe see you at the M & G tomorrow.  Lorna

I dont understand why people can't keep things to themselves when we specifically ask them too! The best revenge in this case is to drop all your weight, looking smokin hot and show them, lol. Im justlike you trying to keep it private but I am also realizing that that might not happen, not because of me, so Im already trying to think up responses for the busybodies! Sorry this has happened,,