How can people be so cruel????

First of all, congrats on your 80 lb loss! That is absolutely amazing. I am very happy for you. As for those jer@#ffs in the car....well it is a reminder of how disgustingly judgemental society is today. It is a very brutal reality. At the end of the day my girl, you have lost 80 effin pounds. 80 unbelievable life changing pounds.Nice work
Keep it up
Hayley

Hi there pretty lady,
I don't know where to start..... First of all I am soooo proud of your amazing weight loss. YOU ARE AMAZING!!!
Second of all.... Those comments are painful! There is no other way to say it. The whole "sticks and stones can break my bones but names will never hurt me... that saying is bull **** We are told our whole lives that we should turn the other cheek and "just ignore" the hurtful comments. But you know what.... this is almost impossible to do.
I don't know why people are so cruel? I, like you, am worried about my child growing up in a world of hurtful people.
You my lady ARE MAKING A DIFFERENCE!! You are strong, beautiful and a inspiration to us all. REMEMBER THAT!!!

HUGE HUG!!

Nikki

Wow, first ~hugss~
. I can feel your pain so easily. I think many of us can on here.
I am not sure why in society it is accepted to be so cruel to others. And it is sooo cruel. All thru my childhood I use to dream of something wicked to get back at them. Something so they would feel bad about what they said or did to me just because I am fat. It is such a raw pain that does not go away easily. I am thinking these idiots were acting on how cool they thought they were being together. Just picking out random people to be mean to for any reason.

Do all you can to not let these idiots win over you. They are nothing to you, do not let them discourage you from the pride you should have for all you have achieved. (And no just in weight loss, but anything ..) Their immature words and ways just show how small they are inside. They have alot of growing to do. One day they will see that..and it might be in a way that slaps them into next week.

Be proud of you, people like that are not worth your time or energy.

Congrats on your weight loss! Wow! Good for you! Sherry I had to see a heart Dr a few years ago because of high blood pressure. Anyway this Dr. was the rudest most arrogant human being I've ever encountered in all my fat years. He did nothing but insult me the whole visit. The very last thing he said to me was Cheryl you need to lose 100 lbs, I said yes i understand that and I will work on it. He then says well you could lose the 100 lbs, but you'll never be bikini material! I'm thinking Buddy I can lose a 100 lbs and look great! But you my friend will  always be an asshole! People like him can't change, but we can! I feel your pain! Turn that negative into something good for yourself. Don't give that kid the power, by letting it effect you. When I hit my goal weight I'm slipping into a bikini and going back to see that DR. I've got lots of strength from that insult. Put yours to good use! Your an amazing woman! Hold your head up high and go forward...All the best! ~Cheryl

I am SO sorry!!

That is NOT ok!!

I have to totally agree with what you said about hoping that my child knows better then to act like that or ever make another human being feel that way!!

SO proud of that hard work you are doing!  Don't let some morons take that away from you!  You are STRONG and BEAUTIFUL and deserve more nights out! !! :)

Well I am feeling the love and all the thoughtful words of encouragement everyone! Thanks so much. We are special people, no matter if superfical people can't get past the exterior.
Much love to all !!!
Ps..
When are we meeting?

I was driving along eating today (was 7 oclock in evening and hadn't come home from work yet!)
And I thought of  what happened to you. I would be so crushed if someone had called me awful names when I was eating my dinner in the car!
I am alot heavier than you - had not had surgery yet- it would have devastated me.

I am so sorry that happened to you--  You are doing amazing- EIGHTY POUNDS!! oh my goodness- you have lost more than my 11 year old weighs!
You have lost more than an entire grade 5 boy!
You are making the correct choices and losing acoordingly- you are using the tool you rec'd- keep it up and F- - CK those awful kids!


Enjoy the long weekend!

Ohhhhh they are so lucky it wasn't me!! The last time someone tried that crap with me it got them follwed home and their car KICKED!!! Ahhhh good old 1998!! Those lil *******s will get whats coming to them!! Those "sons" are an embarassment to their families. if my kids EVER pull that kind of crap...they will want a new mom by the time I'm done talking to them.

DO NOT let them bring you down. I know it burns, but really, we can feel bad for them. They have no manners and are obviously very unhappy people. Sad that no one took the time to love them, teach them and help them become kind memebers of society.

side note: a while ago there was a "punch a ginger" day. Imagine if there was a "punch the skinny stoopid people who have no hearts and never been fat" day???? There would be a LOT of unhappy campers