Just sharing - only you guys would truly understand

LisaBC86
on 4/11/10 8:26 am - Bridgewater, MA
So let me preface this post with the fact that I am in a committed marriage (almost 24 years) and am very happy and fulfilled and can't imagine anything changing it  -I'm a very lucky woman who is still very much in love.

That being said - last night I was out with my husband - we went to see some high school friends band. There were some classmates there as well that I haven't seen in quite some time. So we had a nice visit and all. This morning I got an IM on facebook from one of my male classmates - this is what it said :

so does your hubby feel like he is cheating on you? almost didn't recognize you last night! lookin real hot- keep it up!

Anyhow it did bring a smile to my face........

I know you ladies (and guys !) can understand more than anyone else.

And yes I shared it with hubby - he is so sweet - said - I've been telling you that forever.......

Anyhow it was one of those WOW moments I would never have expected .... and did I mention that in High school he was one of the "cute guys" that all the girls had crushes on......... lol

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RedSox15
on 4/11/10 10:07 am - MA
Aww :)  Sometimes it's the NSV that keeps us going!! 
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DwindlingFlower
on 4/11/10 10:34 am - Quincy, MA
what a nice compliment.... ya know, I honestly feel that even though we are married people, that doesnt mean we dont need to hear that, and I myself make it a point to tell anyone that they look good, doesnt mean Im hitting on them, just means that I can appreciate how good they look.  I dont think people give enough compliments, but maybe thats why when it does happen, the feeling is so great... I dunno, Im gonna stop rambling now but, Lisa, thats awesome!!  I look forward to the day I can run into old friends from high school and blow their mind.... only I gotta travel 5000 miles to do that, haha

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Sue M.
on 4/11/10 11:10 am - Nantucket, MA
That's a great compliment!  Sounds like he wasn't trying to be inappropriate even, just wanted to let you know you've done a great job. 

"cute guys" aren't stupid forever sometimes!!
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Mara C.
on 4/12/10 1:18 am - Millbury, MA
Lisa,

That is great - you should feel proud of yourself too!!!  That is so cool! ~ Mara
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RazzyRobyn
on 4/12/10 3:18 am - West Boylston, MA
That's awesome!!
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tauntonredsox33
on 4/12/10 4:19 am - Taunton, MA
Way 2 go girl!!!  You work that sexy self !!!!!!!!!!
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kawkbw
on 4/12/10 4:33 am - MA
Bow Chica Wow Wowwwww!!!  LOL!!   Good for you!!
Eliza123
on 4/12/10 10:40 am
WOOT WOOT!

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babynurseheather
on 4/12/10 11:12 am - Worcester, MA
Positive comments are a beautiful thing...and sometimes it's nice to hear it from "outside" sources...obviously your Hubby is the kind of guy who is supportive and always thinks you're beautiful, so it's a bonus to hear it from the "cute guy" from school :)

Keep up the great work!
        
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