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Nic M
on 3/1/15 12:40 pm
Topic: RE: 23 year old thinking of getting lap band

I hope you'll consider doing more research. You're really doing a disservice to yourself by choosing the band. It's so very dangerous. I speak from experience. I just spent the weekend in such tremendous pain from the damage incurred during banding. I know it doesn't happen to everyone... but it happens with startling frequency... and enough to be a real concern. I really hate for someone so young to end up with disappointment or permanent damage. Best of luck to you, sincerely. I really hope you'll take the time to research the long list of band complications and decide against banding for the sake of your health long term. 

 

 Avoid kemmerling, Green Bay, WI

 

Heather :o)
on 3/1/15 11:07 am
Topic: RE: Lupus after band.

Hi KathKeb, I remember you even with no pic I think, your an OB nurse like me?  Or maybe NICU? I did in my research definitely find the manufacturer statement that is not meant for life, I also have a realize band, not sure if there is a difference in the life span but I doubt it is much. 

Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
Heather :o)
on 3/1/15 10:59 am
Topic: RE: Lupus after band.

How do I find these hidden sites? I'd probably find a lot of my old friends from 2004 when we had such band enthusiasm.

Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
Hislady
on 3/1/15 8:50 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: Lupus after band.

You need to check FB for failed lap band groups there are a few private ones that have info and files with all kinds of information regarding surveys and studies but I don't know how to link you to them, sorry. We were all lied to back in the early 2000's.

Hislady
on 3/1/15 8:43 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: What to tell nosy people post-surgery..

Trust me you won't be losing so fast that anyone will notice anything going on so there is no reason to say anything but you were on vacation. And if you really want to lose weight get a surgery that will really work for a life time not just a few years. The band is far more dangerous than you will ever believe!

Hislady
on 3/1/15 8:38 am - Vancouver, WA
Topic: RE: What would a fractured port or a tubing issue feel like?

Did you tell the new surgeon what is going on because this is very serious! You could very easily have a slipped band or erosion not to mention the aspiration pneumonia from the acid at night. My band damaged me so badly that even a year after removal I have acid 24/7 and still trying to figure out how to stop that! The longer this goes on the worse the long term damage is going to be so if you can get in even a few days sooner I would go for it. I pray he is knowledgable enough about the band that he gets you in to remove it right away because it will no doubt have to come out. Best wishes to you!

Karen R.
on 3/1/15 7:57 am - Amelia, OH
Revision on 09/10/15
hollykim
on 3/1/15 5:50 am - Nashville, TN
Revision on 03/18/15
Topic: RE: What to tell nosy people post-surgery..
On February 28, 2015 at 8:47 PM Pacific Time, amelia92 wrote:

Hello! I am planning on getting the lap-band (just waiting to hear back from my insurance) but I want something I can tell people, like my work and friends, when they wonder why I am out for a week or my eating habits change. I am just a private person, but I'm obviously telling my closest friends and family. I was thinking maybe gallbladder surgery?

 

Does anyone have something they tell people who have questions if they don't want to share they had lap-band? Or if someone says something about their changed eating habits?

 

Thank you.

why do you owe anyone an answer of what kind of surgery you are having? Tell them it is personal,period,or tell them nothing.

 


          

 

kathkeb
on 3/1/15 5:33 am
Topic: RE: Lupus after band.

Heather,

I can't offer you much more than my support.

I have had my band sine 2009 and also expected that it would be for life ... But now wonder.

As far as your Lupus goes, I always heard that it is not for people with Lupus (I thought that the inflammatory aspect of the disease would cause rejection).

As far as developing Lupus 10 years after the band, I have not heard of that before.

I hope you find answers and I wish you health.

Kath

  
kathkeb
on 3/1/15 5:26 am
Topic: RE: What to tell nosy people post-surgery..

Well, I would not outright lie and make up a different surgery.

I only took 6 days off work .... Friday for surgery and then the following week.  It was vacation.

I lost weight at a slow but stead rate and told people that I was eating less and moving more which we're both true.

I went back to Weigh****chers at about a month after surgery, for support and fellowship.  By that time, I was losing about 2-3 pounds per week, which was not outside the norm for a person of my starting weight.

Be prepared for people to notice, and ask how you are doing it ..... Usually, I just said, "thanks, I feel great" and changed the topic.

Once you tell one person, you have told everyone ..... You can always tell, but you can never 'Un-tell'.

Kath

  
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