OMG Tiffany I LOVE what you did with your name.
On May 12, 2011 at 7:37 AM Pacific Time, Tricia W. wrote:
She likely deactivated because she was being harassed and bullied. I didn't agree with what her fiance did but I understood why he came to her defense. She didn't seem dishonest to me, she seemed sincere and like someone who need support from others who have been where she is at.
NM, I am sorry it's nothing personal but you started a ton of drama needlessly and caused the entire issue. Now you ladies sit here and gloat. I have no desire to be attacked by you ladies and therefore made a whole seperate account to spare myself from feeling the way you made Tiffany feel. I should not have to be ashamed to post in her favor, I know I am not the only person who's heart goes out to her.
I do not agree with the viciousness displayed and hope all of you who participated in this sit down and think about your actions and how you would have liked the same thing done to you.
Tiffany, if for any reason you come back and read this I apologize for not having the power to stand up for you and only being able to do it now anonymously.
Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense. - Buddha
Ms. Cal Culator
on 5/12/11 1:40 am - Tuvalu
on 5/12/11 1:40 am - Tuvalu
On May 12, 2011 at 7:37 AM Pacific Time, Tricia W. wrote:
She likely deactivated because she was being harassed and bullied. I didn't agree with what her fiance did but I understood why he came to her defense. She didn't seem dishonest to me, she seemed sincere and like someone who need support from others who have been where she is at.
NM, I am sorry it's nothing personal but you started a ton of drama needlessly and caused the entire issue. Now you ladies sit here and gloat. I have no desire to be attacked by you ladies and therefore made a whole seperate account to spare myself from feeling the way you made Tiffany feel. I should not have to be ashamed to post in her favor, I know I am not the only person who's heart goes out to her.
I do not agree with the viciousness displayed and hope all of you who participated in this sit down and think about your actions and how you would have liked the same thing done to you.
Tiffany, if for any reason you come back and read this I apologize for not having the power to stand up for you and only being able to do it now anonymously.
Oh, my...speaking of "Tiffany" in the third person, are we "Tricia"? Instead of admitting that you are just here under yet another name? Wow! That, in and of itself, proves that you're an inveterate liar.
Now you have proven to us that there is a good chance you don't know how to be honest about anything.
Thanks for the clarification.
In any group of a hundred people, there are probably 2 or 3 sociopaths. In a group of a thousand, more like 20-30. They function very well in "affinity groups," where people have things in common and tend to trust strangers. I am NOT saying not to trust anyone. I AM saying that there are probably two dozen sociopaths hanging out here and looking for victims. Most are NOT serial killers.
Read: www.sociopathicstyle.com/traits/classic.htm
On May 12, 2011 at 7:37 AM Pacific Time, Tricia W. wrote:
She likely deactivated because she was being harassed and bullied. I didn't agree with what her fiance did but I understood why he came to her defense. She didn't seem dishonest to me, she seemed sincere and like someone who need support from others who have been where she is at.
NM, I am sorry it's nothing personal but you started a ton of drama needlessly and caused the entire issue. Now you ladies sit here and gloat. I have no desire to be attacked by you ladies and therefore made a whole seperate account to spare myself from feeling the way you made Tiffany feel. I should not have to be ashamed to post in her favor, I know I am not the only person who's heart goes out to her.
I do not agree with the viciousness displayed and hope all of you who participated in this sit down and think about your actions and how you would have liked the same thing done to you.
Tiffany, if for any reason you come back and read this I apologize for not having the power to stand up for you and only being able to do it now anonymously.
I'm really confused as to how you would NOT make a separate account from Tiffany's????
6-7-13 band removed. No revision. Facebook Failed Lapbands and Realize Bands group and WLS-Support for Regain and Revision Group
Ms. Cal Culator
on 5/12/11 1:57 am - Tuvalu
on 5/12/11 1:57 am - Tuvalu
On May 12, 2011 at 8:51 AM Pacific Time, Steph M. wrote:
On May 12, 2011 at 7:37 AM Pacific Time, Tricia W. wrote:
She likely deactivated because she was being harassed and bullied. I didn't agree with what her fiance did but I understood why he came to her defense. She didn't seem dishonest to me, she seemed sincere and like someone who need support from others who have been where she is at.
NM, I am sorry it's nothing personal but you started a ton of drama needlessly and caused the entire issue. Now you ladies sit here and gloat. I have no desire to be attacked by you ladies and therefore made a whole seperate account to spare myself from feeling the way you made Tiffany feel. I should not have to be ashamed to post in her favor, I know I am not the only person who's heart goes out to her.
I do not agree with the viciousness displayed and hope all of you who participated in this sit down and think about your actions and how you would have liked the same thing done to you.
Tiffany, if for any reason you come back and read this I apologize for not having the power to stand up for you and only being able to do it now anonymously.
I'm really confused as to how you would NOT make a separate account from Tiffany's????
Well, if you WERE Tiffany, you COULD contact Member Services and see if they could reopen it for you...but innocent old Tricia who wrote THIS could not open anything but a separate account, now could she? She does make a person who uses logic ask those questions, doesn't she?
"I have no desire to be attacked by you ladies and therefore made a whole seperate account to spare myself from feeling the way you made Tiffany feel."
In any group of a hundred people, there are probably 2 or 3 sociopaths. In a group of a thousand, more like 20-30. They function very well in "affinity groups," where people have things in common and tend to trust strangers. I am NOT saying not to trust anyone. I AM saying that there are probably two dozen sociopaths hanging out here and looking for victims. Most are NOT serial killers.
Read: www.sociopathicstyle.com/traits/classic.htm
Con artists don't like to be backed in a corner. They come out fighting and go down telling more lies to cover up for their previous lies.
Con artists think that everyone is stupid. Some people are stupid or naive or too caring for their own good.
When I first read Tiffany's post, I was horrified because her situation sounded about as bad as it can get. So many of us have been through hell with our bands, but not all had the added financial burden she posted about. Could it be possible that Tiffany was taking advantage of our willingness to help? I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, but not anymore. Her behavior is just too telling.
Do you guys remember all the lies and cover ups and denial that came from Cheri after she was outed? This Tiffany person is reacting much the same way.
If someone is trying to take advantage, I hope they realize that we are more than willing to dispense free advice and sympathy, but our money is staying put.
Con artists think that everyone is stupid. Some people are stupid or naive or too caring for their own good.
When I first read Tiffany's post, I was horrified because her situation sounded about as bad as it can get. So many of us have been through hell with our bands, but not all had the added financial burden she posted about. Could it be possible that Tiffany was taking advantage of our willingness to help? I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, but not anymore. Her behavior is just too telling.
Do you guys remember all the lies and cover ups and denial that came from Cheri after she was outed? This Tiffany person is reacting much the same way.
If someone is trying to take advantage, I hope they realize that we are more than willing to dispense free advice and sympathy, but our money is staying put.
Phyllis
"Me agreeing with you doesn't preclude you from being a deviant."
IS THERE A SINGLE PERSON ON THIS ENTIRE FORUM SHE ASKED FOR MONEY FROM?
I NEVER SAW HER ASK FOR MONEY ONE TIME.
Damn, you guys are punks or so paranoid of others it's led to absolute insanity. How ridiculous because one person did something you were all too gullible to fall for and send her money now you really truly believe anyone who puts a $ sign in their post wants to steal yours?
I can see why you spend all your time trolling these forums society at large wouldn't be able to tolerate you.
I'm with Tiffany and Steelersfan...this forum is NOT about building friendships with people who share lap band experiences, or to advise those seeking help, or to have a place to go to vent things; this is an all-girls "I am too anti-social to live outside of my computer and have to prey on anyone I can to feel good about myself" forum. Tiffany walked away from this bull**** good for her I'm following her lead with BOTH accounts. Hope ya'll don't believe in Karma.
"Let he who casts the first stone" LOL you guys cast the first boulder.
I NEVER SAW HER ASK FOR MONEY ONE TIME.
Damn, you guys are punks or so paranoid of others it's led to absolute insanity. How ridiculous because one person did something you were all too gullible to fall for and send her money now you really truly believe anyone who puts a $ sign in their post wants to steal yours?
I can see why you spend all your time trolling these forums society at large wouldn't be able to tolerate you.
I'm with Tiffany and Steelersfan...this forum is NOT about building friendships with people who share lap band experiences, or to advise those seeking help, or to have a place to go to vent things; this is an all-girls "I am too anti-social to live outside of my computer and have to prey on anyone I can to feel good about myself" forum. Tiffany walked away from this bull**** good for her I'm following her lead with BOTH accounts. Hope ya'll don't believe in Karma.
"Let he who casts the first stone" LOL you guys cast the first boulder.
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