Misery LOVES company....

Anyone can post on any thread and I knew that when I posted it . I do not know exactly WHAT you are looking for here. I have stated that I have no list of people , meant no one directly yet the three of you continue to try and attack and make it about ....well .... the three of you . So I will say this , take whatever is written any way you want and do with it what you want .That is fine with me. :)   I made what was intended to be a generalized statement about not letting the negative outweigh the positive .

~less than a handful of ppl~

YOUR words! Just have the decency to address the ppl directly! Simple as that.

And btw...............why start a new thread stating this if your intent was to just let the forum know there are possitive ppl??? That has already been stated. Why be a drama queen and start the thread to pretend to call out ppl for their "negative" responses and not be considerate enough to address them by name??? Hell even Big John had enough common courtesy to do that!

Have a nice night! :-)

NOW THATS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. ITS LIKE YOU WANT TO ARGUE WITH SOMEBODY. LIKE YOU SIT AND WAIT FOR A THREAD TO COME OUT THAT YOU CAN START WITH. NOW IF SHE WOULD OF CALLED YOU OUT. YOU WOULD OF BEEN MAD. OH, WHY ARE THEY PICKING ON ME, IM JUST TRYING TO LET PPL KNOW ABOUT THE BAND. IM NOT NEGATIVE

I THINK YOU NEED TO GET SOME KIND OF LIFE AND STOP BEING A DRAMA QUEEN. MISERY DOES LOVE COMPANY. I POSTED ON YOUR THREAD AND I FELT FOR YOU, BUT NOW I REALIZE THAT YOU LOVE THE BACK AND FORTH. ITS JUST CRAZZYY. WERE YOU BULLIED AS A CHILD??? BECAUSE I THINK YOU ARE LIKE THIS JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE ON A COMPUTER. I DON'T THINK YOU WOULD BE ABLE TO SAY THE THINGS YOU SAY TO A PERSON FACE TO FACE...
ITS LIKE I CAN'T GO ON A THREAD WITHOUT SEE A POST FROM YOU WANTING TO START SOMETHING, JUST SMDH...

I sincerely wish you 100% success with your lap band, but I just wanted you to know that there are many of us who were once pre-ops and we felt just the way you are feeling now....until our bands failed us.

~NOW THATS WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT. ITS LIKE YOU WANT TO ARGUE WITH SOMEBODY. LIKE YOU SIT AND WAIT FOR A THREAD TO COME OUT THAT YOU CAN START WITH.~

Excuse me??? Had I started anything with YOU on this thread? NO! So who is starting something here??? lol

~NOW IF SHE WOULD OF CALLED YOU OUT. YOU WOULD OF BEEN MAD. OH, WHY ARE THEY PICKING ON ME~

If she had the decency to address WHO she is speaking of I would at least have a little more respect for her! Do YOU like being talked about behind YOUR back? Probably not! Nor do the rest of us! So weather she is referring to  me or not...............she can at least have the balls to address who she is referring to! That's just common courtesy! Don't u think?!

~ITS LIKE I CAN'T GO ON A THREAD WITHOUT SEE A POST FROM YOU WANTING TO START SOMETHING,~

Again............as I said.............U started with ME! I was not addressing u at all! Therefore this "conflict" was started by YOU! So again.................WHO is starting something here???

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Friends...Seriously! There are like a hanful of 5 people with negatives experiences and negative comments on the lapband forum of OH....Dont take it personally by her saying a handful or whatever...I do not believe she meant it towards anyone specific.....but if you want the credit for it Go for it:) 

Thank you for getting it ! LOL  :)

Correction...there are way more than a handful.  It is more than just an opinion or a point of view.  It is an experience and a very bad one at that.

I think in most cases, the negativity towards the band is an attemp to help others.

this is exactly why I visit this forum a little less each month
Before banding, I was so glad to have communication with others going through the same situation and really appreciated reading their posts, I was on this site daily after work reading their words of encouragement .. I can't thank those posters enough for the help that they gave

These days, others seem so angry,mean even vicious to spend hours on here just posting nonsense and calling people out instead of living and enjoying their lives, too bad for them that their lives are so empty.

I really hope that the new members do not become discouraged because there still
are so many wonderful people here to help them in their journey.

PEACE,
joy