my mother in law means well butttttttt

PaintingChef
on 4/20/11 11:32 pm, edited 4/20/11 11:33 pm - TN

Conversations like these are EXACTLY why I didn't tell my in-laws I had WLS. My mother-in-law mentioned something the other day about me losing weight and I was like "Thanks, I've been making some changes in my life to try and be healthier" and changed the subject. Why is it that MIL's are such a-holes?

I'm so sorry that she was so rude to you. You deserve nothing but praise for your accomplishments! Congratulations on all your hard work!

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michele1
on 4/21/11 4:13 am

Revision on 07/07/15

My father did something similar........I have lost 90 pounds kept it off (with the exception of bouncing 5 up and down) and he keeps asking me every time he sees me if I am going to lose more.......... I tell him that I want to but my body seems to like where it is at, plus I am healthy and feel good.......his reply well you where born a "big girl" and therefore aren't meant to get thinner.

It hurts but I ignore him, I think deep down they are jealous or ignorant not knowing what to say so they say something stupid......he didn'****ch his weight and found out at 50 that he is diabetic....enough said on that count LOL....

Michele