XP: So undecided Band vs. VSG... So many concerns.

IMO, the sleeve would be a better choice. I have links if you want to do some reading on some negative band experiences. You can PM me if you want them.

If anything, you will be able to drink more with the sleeve than the band.

I had the band and now I have the sleeve.  The band is very fickle and responds negatively to stress, female issues, any unrelated illness, dense protein, veggies and fruit, just to name a few.  You may never get to a level of restriction that allows you to lose weight in a healthy way.

You may be miserable the whole time you are banded.  It is a very needy WLS.  VSG on the other hand is way more natural and dependable.

Good luck