Not Happy

There are Fill Centers popping up all over the U.S.   Google Fill Centers America and see what you can find in your area.  They are supposidly cheaper than seeing a Bariatric surgeon's practice. 

You CANNOT keep living with a too tight band.  It will cause complications that are very serious especially if your are regurgitating food so often. 

In the meantime, I would go on Prilosec OTC for at least 2 weeks if you feel you have irritated your band and are having any burning or reflux.  Stick to non-spicy or acid soft foods and find some place where you can do the proper maintenence that's part of having a band. 

As someone here already said, you can't afford NOT to take care of this immediately.

Best~
Lisa O.

Sounds like you need  two things... an unfill and a better husband.

You need to get an unfill very, very soon. You're at risk right now for esophageal dilation and a host of other problems, including band slippage.
I understand what you're going through, honestly, I do. I never was able to eat solid foods for 2 years. I lived on protein shakes, soup and ice cream. And that was with an unfilled band. It was awful and I have damage to my system from it. Please find a way to get an unfill very soon. You may not even realize how much you're hurting yourself and I'm worried about you.

I hope you'll be OK and I'm sorry you're going through this.