Oh **** **** ****! I screwed up BIG TIME!!!
Good one!!! LOL I knew it was April's Fools because I have came to know you by reading your posts regulary!!! :)
I know I haven't posted much lately .... busy busy busy but I still LURK! :P
I know I haven't posted much lately .... busy busy busy but I still LURK! :P
246 in Dec 2008 before banded 1/28/09 at 215 lbs, band crapped 9/09 at 170 lbs and struggled with it and regained to 203 revised to bypass on 8/1/11 and am very happy.
April- Fing Fools! Damn woman... I know you better than that!!!
Oh Bette... I'm still trying to recover from the 4/1 post you put out last year!!! Weren't you taking a job in Iraq or somewhere equally terrifying????
Highest 298; Pre-op: 279; PreOp BMI 41. CW: 188 & Current BMI: 30!!!!! 
Thank you Lord for Dr Nair!!!
1st Goal 248; 2nd Goal 230 met!!!! 7/2010; 3rd Goal 215 - met 9/18/10!!!; 4th Goal 200 - 12/20/2010... Surgeons goal met - I'd like to lose a litte more.
Thank you Lord for Dr Nair!!!1st Goal 248; 2nd Goal 230 met!!!! 7/2010; 3rd Goal 215 - met 9/18/10!!!; 4th Goal 200 - 12/20/2010... Surgeons goal met - I'd like to lose a litte more.
Well it might be best to think about how you would feel if the tables were turned. I know I would be pretty pissed off for less, esp. if it was a friend :( First of all you can't hide it, I mean it was a friend of his so he will probably find out. So before you tell your husband maybe you should think through what happend. Meaning what led up to it. Are you two going through problems, are you needing more out of your relationship? Or was it just plain and simple attraction that you guys allowed to build up to more through idle filirting? (BTW these are questions I mean for you to answer to yourself, not me, lol)
Once you can maybe pin point what led up to it you will be better able to explain it to your husband, I mean you dont want to start talking to him about it while you are completely confused about your feelings or you'll both be lost. It might be a long couple of hours/ days/ weeks until you figure this out and get it out there. Ugh, I don't envy your dilema right now. Good Luck!!
Once you can maybe pin point what led up to it you will be better able to explain it to your husband, I mean you dont want to start talking to him about it while you are completely confused about your feelings or you'll both be lost. It might be a long couple of hours/ days/ weeks until you figure this out and get it out there. Ugh, I don't envy your dilema right now. Good Luck!!
Sleeve Revision from Lap-band November 23, 2012
Starting Weight: 236 Lowest Weight w/ Lap-Band: 160 Current Weight: 190
Goal Weight: 150...40lbs to go
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