I think my Hubby wants me to FAIL!

My husband has good genetics and cant keep weight on if he tries. For that reason he has NO clue how to lose weight. He has always tried to give me rediculous advice on how to lose weight when the guy eats anything he wants and doesnt hold back. When I first wanted to get LapBand, he was not on board, it took like a year to convince him to support me and even then he didn't come with me to the hospital, my mom took me. Fast forward now two years later while most of my weight is gone, I am completely unfilled for a month (or more) and doing weigh****chers and he keeps trying to convince me to stop counting my points. He brings home crap food (weinersnitchzel) and tells me I am over doing it when I get on the treadmill (which I absolutely am not).

Here is my theory, I think he doesn't want to feel pressure to do anything himself. Though I have never said to him he should be exercising or watching what he eats (well I have kinda hinted about his eating habits) but I just think my efforts make him put pressure on himself so if he can get me to stop or eat poorly he wont stand out. Just a thought.

Wow, I guess I am the lucky one here. My Husband was banded 2 years before I was. He has lost and kept off 130 pounds. We support each other.I am a slow loser and he always is happy for me even if I lose a little. We will be married 40 years in November and have been together for 45. Good luck to you!
Renate