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Oh my dear maria, how I love thee! I would ask how things are going cause we havent spoken for a little bit, but I dont think I need to after reading this.LOL. I completely agree with the false advertising comment, I did in all intentions have a different idea of the lapband. I like you do agree that they are promising something not there, and the doctors not making sure you completely understand what restriction will be like and the "Sweet spot" will be like is damaging. I am doing good with my band. I am at a 10 in my 11 band and I dont have the sweet spot i think i would have either. But I do find myself going i could stop eating now im feeling a lil full and thats where i make my choice to put the food down. Have you tried anything like that? Like me I havent gottn the sweet spot so i had to come up with something else to make that choice. I get frusterated a lot with the band, but I also have to thank it, it has been a tool that has gotten me where I am. You can do it maria dont give up hun just look for other signs since the one we thought we should have isnt going to happen. You can do it, dont give up!