NEED COUPLE FAVORS

OK MY FIRST BIG FAVOR IS,, I NEED A ANGEL!!! I KNOW I'M HIGH MAINTANCE, I WHINE ALOT, I'M LAZY , AND I AM H-O-R-R-I-B-L-E AT CALLING PEOPLE BACK,, BUT I NEED SOMEONE IF ANYONE WANTS TO GET IN ON THE DRAMA!!!! I SWEAR I'M WORKING ON IT!!! ALSO MY MOMMY WON'T BE HERE , SHE'S IN TEXAS TAKING CARE OF MY UNCLE AND MY DADS IN BIRMINGHAM, SO I ONLY HAVE MY SISTER WHO IS DEATHLY AFRAID OF HOSPITAL'S SO I NEED SOME FRIEND'S... 2ndLY,,, I NEED SOME ADVICE ON WHEN GETTTING THE SURGERY DONE HOW DO I PREPARE MY GIRLFRIEND FOR ME GETTING THE SURGERY? I MEAN I KNOW ITS NOT ONLY GOING TO BE A BIG CHANGE IN MY LIFE FOR ME BUT A HUGE ONE FOR HER,,, I KNOW IT WILL PROBALLY BE MORE STRESSFUL FOR HER THAN IT IS FOR ME,, OR AT LEAST AS MUCH,, I TALKED TO THE THERAPIST WHO DID MY PYSCH EVUALATION AND HE WAS TELLING ME HOW BEING IN RELATIONSHIP'S IS REALLY HARD B/C OF THE STRESS, AND HOW IT AFFECTS YOUR PARTNER,, SHE ALREADY MAKES JOKES LIKE I AM GOING TO LEAVE HER WHEN I HAVE IT DONE < WHICH IS SOOOOO FAR FROM RIGHT> SO I NEED TO KNOW IF THERES SUPPORT GROUPS, ANYTHING I CAN DO TO MAKE HER FEEL BETTER,, I KNOW I CAN'T CONTROL HER FEELINGS IN THE BIG PICTURE BUT I WOULD HATE TO LOOSE HER OVER SOMETHING LIKE THIS. THX 3rdLY,,, AND VERY IMPT!!!! I NEED SOME HELP PUTTING PICTURES UP,, I HAVE SOOOOOOOO MANY I WANT TO PUT UP AND I FINALLY GOT MY NEW PRINTER/SCANNER THING IN,,, SO I AM UP AND ROLLING,, ANYONE CAN HELP ME ??? THANKS

OH ONE MORE THING,, HOW DO I JOURNAL ON MY PROFILE, IVE BEEN WANTING TO DO IT AND CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW,,, HMMMMMMMMMM

Well I live right by St. Tammany Hospital - so I'll come visit you when you have it done - if you want visitors - I honestly didn't. If you and your girlfriend are in a very solid relationship - this will not affect it. In fact my husband was not for this surgery until I took him to the seminar. Now he comes to all the postop meetings and he is part of the group. He was the one who made my shakes and pushes me to walk. He has been my rock. Before the surgery we had a lot of talks about my losing the weight and whether or not I'd leave. He finally figured out I did this for us. I wanted us to have a fun future together. As soon as she realizes that what you have is special she'll understand. The best thing is to get her involved with you in this process. Can she be at the hospital with you? You'll be glad to have someone there who loves you. I was lucky I had my mom. My husband was home buildinga fence, but he came and visited every day. As for the pictures I sent them to OH and they put mine on there. good luck!

Hi Ashleigh, I'm calling you know. Would love to be Auntie Angel and let's get that profile whipped into shape this weekend! Your bud, Frances