crazy little question...
As I explained in my first post I am happily married to my high school sweetheart. He loved me when I was thin and now there is just more of me to love
(This is a rather embarrassing post but enquiring minds want to know)
I have never had this "make love only in the dark" syndrom I hear so much about with obese women. I am not embarrassed to bare all in front of the man that I love. We have a very open and loving relationship.
With that said, he and I have been doing some talking about what life will be like AFTER surgery and well the big S_E_X talk came up 
He is a very thin man with an extremely high metabolism. We were coming up with all the "new" things we could do in the bedroom after surgery that are just plain physically impossible now (not going to go any further and we will just leave it at that 
)
Is there anyone out there that is in basically the same situation as I but had the surgery? The whole we were "active" before without hang ups but now "woohooo..."
How much has your "bedroom activities" changed? Do you find yourself still having the same hang ups as before surgery?
This may sound like a silly question but It is one I am worried about.
With all of the inside parts changing ...do you find it harder to find "fullfilment"? If all those parts start moving and changing shape... they might not work as well.... (trying to be cryptic here since I don't know anyone yet and this is kind of personal but something that I have real concerns about.... )
To give an example... 2 years ago I had a partial hysterectomy (uterous and cervix removed) due to several fibroids. It took several months to find what "worked" for me after this surgery. This was something I didn't even think of before I had the surgery and it made a huge impact on my life after (as you can most likely guess 
) I am wondering if I should prepare myself for the same after WLS?
If you are not wanting to get personal on here I completely understand hahaha you can email me at [email protected] if you prefer to answer me through emails.
(This is a rather embarrassing post but enquiring minds want to know)
I have never had this "make love only in the dark" syndrom I hear so much about with obese women. I am not embarrassed to bare all in front of the man that I love. We have a very open and loving relationship.
With that said, he and I have been doing some talking about what life will be like AFTER surgery and well the big S_E_X talk came up
He is a very thin man with an extremely high metabolism. We were coming up with all the "new" things we could do in the bedroom after surgery that are just plain physically impossible now (not going to go any further and we will just leave it at that )
Is there anyone out there that is in basically the same situation as I but had the surgery? The whole we were "active" before without hang ups but now "woohooo..."
How much has your "bedroom activities" changed? Do you find yourself still having the same hang ups as before surgery?
This may sound like a silly question but It is one I am worried about.
With all of the inside parts changing ...do you find it harder to find "fullfilment"? If all those parts start moving and changing shape... they might not work as well.... (trying to be cryptic here since I don't know anyone yet and this is kind of personal but something that I have real concerns about.... )
To give an example... 2 years ago I had a partial hysterectomy (uterous and cervix removed) due to several fibroids. It took several months to find what "worked" for me after this surgery. This was something I didn't even think of before I had the surgery and it made a huge impact on my life after (as you can most likely guess ) I am wondering if I should prepare myself for the same after WLS?
If you are not wanting to get personal on here I completely understand hahaha you can email me at [email protected] if you prefer to answer me through emails. 
YEA I AM ABOUT TO HAVE THE SURGERY AND WONDERING ALOT OF THE SAME QUESTIONS... ALSO MY GIRLFRIEND IS WORRIED I AM GOING TO BECOME MORE OF A NYPHMO THAN I ALREADY AM,, IS IT TRUE YOU BECOME MORE "HORNY" TO SAY,, I KNOW YOU BECOME MORE FERTILE BUT DOES THAT MEAN YOU WANT IT MORE? ALSO WHERE IS THIS SEX BOARD???
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