my sex life

Ok I'm pre op and my sex life is ok, not as good as it once was. I guess my lack of self confindence and sometimes my body just plainly hurts from certain postions because of my weight and joint and back pain.My question is did anyones sex life change post op? Thanks everyone keep up the good work!!! stefie

Stefie, Here is a site that might be able to give you a lot of advice on this subject. Personally, I would have to say it is better. I feel so much better about myself and that has helped with everything in my life. Jodi http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/sex_before_and_after_wls/

I have talked to many people who believed that their sex life would improve if they lose weight and many of them did attest to that fact. But from a male point of view, I believe it does make a difference because once you lose weight your confidence is elevated and you feel better about yourself. Good luck on your weightloss journey. Fred