DELAY IN SURGERY DAY

Well, I should be in recovery right now.....Instead, I'm home playing nurse to my 23 old son chase who broke 2 femurs & had a 7 hr surgery last Sunday......These types of accidents having been going on for years in this family, just never thought it would prevent my surgery.....I've been rescheduled for 9/11 since 9/4 was labor day.....I'm working around 2 weddings I have to cater on 8/26 & 9/2.......Do any of you think9/11 is a bad date to get.....Should I change?......Just nervous about everything latey......Thanks to all of you wishing me good luck on my first posting....Everyone is so supportive......Its unbieveable....Will keep everyone posted .......A big private thanks to ronda for all your extra support.......Karen romero

I think that it is a good day ! If it is the one u feel good about than go with .Just cause something happened awhile back doesn't mean we let those kind of people run r life !We show them that what they did is not goiing to stop us from going on with are normal life .So in my eyes make that day stand for something good and great for u ,it will be a beginning of a new u!!!!!!!!!

Karen, That day will be great, because you will be able to change the meaning of that date to a really special date for you and your family. It will be a new beginning for you. I don't see it as the day of that incident. I see it as the day that my son and his "then" future wife started seeing each other. That day made it possible to add a wonderful young lady to my family, and she has been a joy to me for the last 3 years that they have been married. So don't see a date on the calendar as a bad thing. See it as your new birthday. That is what I consider 9/27/04. It is my birthday and so is today--weeeee I am 49 today and I think that if I couldn't celebrate 9/27/04 as a special day in my life then my family may have been laying flowers on a grave today instead of calling me on my cell and doing nice things for me and so on and so forth. So nurse that son of yours and that way when you have your surgery, you will have your very own male nurse. Don't worry and be nervous, be confident that you are making the best decision of your life. Debbie

Karen, I do believe you should keep that date. I think you should focus on you and being a healthier you because after all, YOU DESERVE IT !!! Stephanie

Anyday would be a good day to start your new life. Sorry to hear about your son, I hope he's okay. Good luck with your surgery. Tina

I am so sorry to hear about your son, I hope he is doing better. You can make this a positive day, it is all in the way you look at it. I know you will do fine regardless of the date. Take care and I hope the time flies by for you. Jodi