I finally have a date

Wednesday, June 28. I can't believe it is going to happen, that is, if this liquid diet doesn't kill me first. This is much harded then I thought it would be. I have only posted on here a few times. I didn't feel like I had much to say but I have been reading everyday for well over a couple of years now. So needless to say I feel like I know most of you regulars. I am starting to get scared and I know I could turn to you all for support. My husband and kids are wonderful about it. And I do know what to expect from all of your experiences. My husband is having back (disc replacement) surgery on 22 June in Baton Rouge. He is one of these that is never sick enough to stay home, he just keeps on going. He says he is going to be just fine and not to worry. My surgery is going to be done in New Orleans with Dr William Richardson at Oschner. So, I'm not sure my husband will be able to be with me. I want him to be, but not if it is going to risk his procedure being damaged. My oldest daughter will probably be the one with me. She will be twenty at the end of July and my twin 9 year olds can be with Daddy. I worry if I should put my date off alittle, but my husband says not to, just go and get it over with. We both have been waiting so long for both procedures. When he got his date for his I joked I'd probably get the same date and wouldn't you know it the date the Dr office gave the insurance was one day before my husband. I knew I couldn't do that to my kids. Do you think this situation is doable? Are we trying to accomplish too much at one time? I guess I am just requesting prayers for our family over the next few weeks because they are going to be very busy and trying for us all.

Congrats on the date..... WOW things will be hectic for you guys but sound like you are all supportive of one another. Is your husbands surgery going to be a day surgery or will he be in the hospital. I would say if it is day surgery it can be doable. You could talk with your doctors office and let them know if there are any cancellations prior to your date to use you as a fill in. That happens a lot. Your husband could do the same with his surgeon. I am one that does not let things get to me, I have always lived by the saying "if there is a will there is a way" I have lots of saying that I go by......that is one of many. I know when I was in the hospital my husband would come by around 10 and stay till the evening. I did not need him there. I was grateful he wanted to stay but it was not needed. The nurses were great. I think he was able to get more work done there than he does in the office so that was why he stayed. I do remember him saying that the first day. I am a very independent person and I don't like people hovering around me especially when I am sick. Let me do for myself. Wishing you the best, personally it might be a little hard but I do think it could be doable if you all have the right attitude. Hugs, Jodi

CONGRATZ on your date!!!!! I will be getting mine on tuesday. I am a little scared too. You have my prayers.

You are going to be fine. I am having my surgery as well with Dr. Richardson of Ochsner on July 12th and I am elated, nervous, happy and scared all boiled into one. If you want to talk or email me for some support, feel free to -- my email addy is [email protected] Looking forward to hearing from you, Stephanie

Some time in the near future, I hope to have my surgery with Dr. Kennedy at Ochsner. Perhaps we'll cross paths! Good luck!

Let me know when you will be having your procedure. I am looking for someone who may be there the same time as I am. Good Luck and keep in touch

Congratulations I know it's been awhile but it will all work out for you. I don't think having the surgery close together will be a problem. I was up and about in a few days. Just don't try to pick him up or anything. You'll do fine and if you need anything I'm just up the road email me and I'll give you my phone number. I will be glad to help in anyway you need. Tina