Update,, me and liz!

Well I wanted to come update everyone on the me and liz situation,, well the people who give a ****!!!! Well me and liz ARE back together,, she called me friday night crying her heart out and asking me to come talk to her,, which I was more than happy to do,, thrusday night and friday during the day were the loneliest times in my life, it seemed everything I did reminded me of her,, well I went and talked and she poured her heart out to me, which I told her was necc. since I felt she had not be honest with me and that was something I required in a relationship,, Well we talked forever and she told me that she just got freaked out , that she never thought she would find someone like me and fall in love the way she had with me,, That she has huge commitment and trust issues(which geesh doesn't take a genuis to figure out) and that she was sorry she got freaked out,, That she just wanted to slow down a tiny bit and to put off the wedding for just a lil while,, she said she did need to get some outside help and I told her if we were to continue that we would have to go to couples consuleing,,, She agreed and I was pleased to know that she was willing,, So we are going to work things out,, I AM SOOO HAPPY,,, Thank you all SOOOOOOOOO much,, you all have been sooo nice and soo caring,, I don't know many of you personally but I feel like you all are as close as family,, Thank you all from the bottom of my heart!

That's great news Ashleigh. I'm glad you are doing better. The counseling sounds like a good idea. Liz is lucky to have you and I'm sure stepping back from the situation for a couple of days made her see things in a different light. We have been worried about you, glad everything is looking up for you! Patricia

Ashleigh! I've been in Vail for three days and I was unable to enjoy myself worrying about you so much. Ok, although that is a load of bull doogie, I'm glad to hear things have progressed positively since we talked Friday night. Not only that, I'm so proud of you because you have grown so much in the short time I've known you and you are a pillar of strength and support for others. Happy tears Keep up the good work and I'll go back to looking at hunky guys climbing mountains. (wow, wear those pants, baby!) Onward! Frances

I'm glad everything is working out for ya'll. Hopefully the counseling will do you good. Good luck with that. Tina 336/202/145

Yay! Best of luck to you both!

I am so happy that everything is working out. I am very happy to hear that Liz is willing to go do the counselling with you. You are a wonderful person, and she is lucky to have you. Cindee

That's great Ashleigh, I'm glad things are looking up for ya! I'm a big advocate for counseling, I think every couple could benefit from it....even if things are going good. It just helps you understand each other better. Hope all works out! Kendra

Ash, I am soo glad things are working out for you and Liz. I know that the couseling will help things a lot and bring the 2 of you closer than ever before. Keep us posted on when the wedding will be I am sure it will be here before you know it too. Take care Love ya, Chrissy

Ashleigh, so glad things are working out for you! Weddings are stressful and people do freak out but counseling should help! Thanks for updating us on your situation. Anne

Hi Ashleigh, I haven't been to the site in a while(having trouble with this stupid computer) so I was sorry to hear that you were having troubles. Hope things are going better for you now. As you told me when I was having my problems a few weeks back, counseling really helps and even if you can't get joint counseling, then go by yourself, that will help too. I know it certainly helped me. And you know, since the storm I lost my counselor so I use this site many times just to remind myself that we are all in the same boat and that we just gotta slow down and take a few deep breaths and we will make it through. I really want to thank you for the advice that you gave me a few weeks back when I was freaking out. Everyone was great, but you really made me feel that I was not in this boat alone. If you remember, it was about the depression and meds and losing control. I know everyone meant well, but I felt like you had a trip closer to mine in the mind dept and it really helped for you to admit your problems and help me get a grip. It made me happy to hear that you had a problem and that it was working itself out for you. Best of luck and I will try to be on the board more often now that I have gotten a laptop and that makes it easier for me to get online. No more having to shove the kids off the desktop. Debbie